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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-08-29 06:26 pm

[ SECRET POST #2066 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2066 ⌋

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Re: Explaining sexual preference without the labels.

[personal profile] stuck4aname 2012-08-30 01:24 am (UTC)(link)
I find both men and women beautiful. I would like the trust, security and love of a long-term relationship with either a man or a woman, or maybe more than one person if everyone involved was OK with it. I like cuddling and holding hands and hugging, as well kissing as long as there is little-to-no saliva involved.

When I look at people I don't know personally, I may find them physically good-looking, but nobody ever becomes attractive to me unless they have a good personality. I tend to infer things about their personality from the way they hold and conduct themselves, the way they speak, their interests, etc. and from what I infer, I conclude whether or not I would want to be in a relationship with them. The minute I find something significant that I don't like about them, they stop being remotely attractive to me.

I feel sexual arousal, but it's just an itch that I have to scratch every now and then. I have kinks, but only to watch or read about, never to take part in myself. Sex is great, as long as I'm not involved. There is one person who I consider an exception, but if it ever came to it, I'm not sure whether I would have sex with him. My thoughts about him aren't explicitly sexual, they're just more sexual than my thoughts about anyone else (which amount to kissing and cuddling at the most).