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⌈ Secret Post #2069 ⌋

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[The City of Dreaming Books]

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[The Monkees]

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Firstly, my response wasn't all to you but to the various people we've had go against us. I wasn't saying you made the hate Tumblr, I was just saying that it happened. the problem is, you are only seeing the one side of it. When we respond in defense of something, it's ususally because we've had enough...it's not a spur of the moment defensive but something that has been building. We've seen a lot of backlash against us, a lot of people talking behind our backs and not being remotely subtle about it and we let it go but it will get to a point that we feel we have to acknowledge it for our own sanity. To everyone else, that probably looks like we get defensive over everything, but trust me, we let so much slide and try and ignore so much.

Honestly, we would not flip out over criticism. But we've had so many people have digs at us, pretending it's criticism when it's not, that it's hard to take it in the light it's intended sometimes. I don't do a whole lot with the Tumblr because I don't have the creativeness with the posts, I stay very much in the realm of the website itself but it just gets me down that whenever I go to Tumblr, there's always some kind of drama. We never expected to have as many followers as we do or to become one of the top Monkees Tumblrs (I personally would trade it in because I can't handle it at all but it's Mini's playground and I know she enjoys it when things are calm).

I didn't mean to sound like I was bashing your secret, you are completely entitled to think it, I just wish people would understand our side of it from time to time.

I know you weren't saying that I made that tumblr. What I meant was that you bring that attitude - hate tumblr, people badmouthing NP - to minor things, like my complaint. That you get defensive immediately, like my complaint is the same as those other things. I didn't think you were ever accusing me of starting a hate tumblr! I mean, I get that those kind of things can make you defensive...but at the end of the day, you're still responding defensively...and maybe sometimes to people who aren't trying to engender that response. Or at least, it seems that way to me.

To everyone else, that probably looks like we get defensive over everything, but trust me, we let so much slide and try and ignore so much.

Well, as someone who is part of 'everyone else' - yeah, it does seem over-defensive. Hey, I'm not saying I know the whole story. Maybe you are completely justified every single time you respond to something, but as a total bystander - it looks kind of paranoid. I don't mind people disagreeing with me - honestly, I don't. But it feels like you and I couldn't disagree (on the NP tumblr) without me being made to feel like my disagreement is an attack. Maybe you guys would be completely fine with it, like you say...but the way you respond to other people (maybe all of who are haters, I don't know) maybe gives non-haters the feeling that they'll be smacked down if they voice a dissenting opinion.

I stay very much in the realm of the website itself but it just gets me down that whenever I go to Tumblr, there's always some kind of drama.

Hey! Look at that! We have the same complaint :-) I hate going on and seeing 'oh. another response. more negativity and drama.'

We never expected to have as many followers as we do or to become one of the top Monkees Tumblrs (I personally would trade it in because I can't handle it at all but it's Mini's playground and I know she enjoys it when things are calm).

Well, there are a lot of good things about the tumblr. Of course you should have a lot of followers. And my opinion is nowhere near 'chuck it in' and I hope that's not what you're taking from this. I'm just saying that the way you guys handle things isn't for me, but obviously you feel like you're justified in that. Clearly we're going to have to agree to disagree.

I didn't mean to sound like I was bashing your secret, you are completely entitled to think it, I just wish people would understand our side of it from time to time.

Thanks. But I don't quite get it. You guys have lots of supporters, who are totally on your side. I'm not 100% in your corner but I can admit that you guys have sometimes been justified in your responses (hey - I really am trying to understand your side of it). I can see that you have some haters, but are there really that many? You just seem really, really focused on your haters, rather than your supporters and casual fans, which have to way outnumber them. Again, I don't know the whole story (don't think I want to, TBH) so maybe these haters are utterly impossible to ignore. If that's the case, my sincere sympathies.

Anyway, peace out! I don't know that either of us have really changed positions :-) but I appreciate the responses.

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