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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-09-18 06:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #2086 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2086 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2012-09-19 07:11 am (UTC)(link)
I actually know what you mean, OP! Some of my now-former friends did the same thing to me. I would watch or read things they wanted me to watch/read, which, even if I wound up liking them- and I frequently did!- was difficult for me, because getting into something new is harder for me to do the more pressure there is on me to do it. But when I wanted them to watch/read something I liked, even when it was something I was sure they'd also like, it was like pulling teeth getting them to check it out.

It wasn't that I felt entitled to them checking out my stuff, or that I was only sitting through the stuff they liked so they'd look at the stuff I liked. Or even that all we had in common was fandom. It just hurt that they didn't seem to take my opinions and recommendations seriously, and I'm sorry you're in the same boat. Can you maybe talk to your friends about it?