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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-09-27 06:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #2095 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2095 ⌋

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Ear Angst

(Anonymous) 2012-09-27 11:15 pm (UTC)(link)
I've had not big but really prominent ears my entire life. It doesn't stop me from wearing my hair off them and behind them and I usually forget about them. But other people commenting about them is my berserk button.

There's one particular situation. Some grandmother at a gathering -- always a grandmother, not mine and usually someone I don't know too well -- comes up to me (or sneaks up behind me!) and actively starts pulling my hair out of my bun/updo to cover my ears while telling me they need to be hidden. I remember this happening when I was nine and the last time it happened I was already TWENTY FUCKING THREE. I was thisclose to bitch-slapping that particular grandma and just managed to stop myself.

The moral of this story is: never comment about other peoples' ears to their face. They might hulk out.

Re: Ear Angst

[identity profile] checkerblob.livejournal.com 2012-09-29 12:06 am (UTC)(link)
That's really fucking terrible, anon :( I'm really sorry you have to deal with that kind of thing, that's inexcusable and while yeah, I've generally been taught to be polite to older people and accept that they're going to say some things that really shouldn't be said, that's not something you should have to put up with. Commenting is bad enough but actually undoing your hairdo is severe nope.