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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-09-29 03:17 pm

[ SECRET POST #2097 ]


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NF

(Anonymous) 2012-09-29 08:05 pm (UTC)(link)
Your friend sounds like a dick. Their reaction is way over the top, definitely.

But as for the hanging out part...you have kids. They don't like kids, possibly even hate kids. Why would they want to hang around you if it means hanging around something they hate?

Re: NF

(Anonymous) 2012-09-29 08:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Spouse/babysitter?

Re: NF

(Anonymous) 2012-09-29 08:49 pm (UTC)(link)
I hate kids, but I don't mind hanging out with friends who have kids - as long as they leave their kid with their SO/babysitter/other relatives so we can just hang out like we used to before. I DO mind people who drag their kids with them, who talk about their kids all the time, and really just meet me because they want me to tell them how cute their kids are. Fuck them. So if you're in the second group, OP, I kind of understand your friend. If not, they're clearly a fuckhead.
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Re: NF

[personal profile] diet_poison 2012-09-29 08:54 pm (UTC)(link)
People are generally not physically attached to their children...

Re: NF

(Anonymous) 2012-09-29 11:35 pm (UTC)(link)
For the first few years, yes, they are.
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Re: NF

[personal profile] recessional 2012-09-29 11:50 pm (UTC)(link)
If this were true, I'd be out a job. :P As would every other childcare professional.

Re: NF

(Anonymous) 2012-09-29 11:54 pm (UTC)(link)
LOL nope.
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Re: NF

[personal profile] diet_poison 2012-09-30 01:02 am (UTC)(link)
lol what

Re: NF

(Anonymous) 2012-09-30 02:56 am (UTC)(link)
Goodness, really? I wonder how my co-worker, the mother of a two-year-old, has managed to come to work over the past year and three-quarters. I also wonder how she has managed to come to parties and happy hours. Surely she should either be stuck at home or forced to bring her son to work and all outings.

Re: NF

(Anonymous) 2012-09-30 03:04 am (UTC)(link)
Maybe she's a bad mom?
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Re: NF

[personal profile] visp 2012-09-30 03:25 am (UTC)(link)
Goddamn hardy umbilical cord there.

Re: NF

(Anonymous) 2012-09-30 05:31 am (UTC)(link)
They don't need to be. Some of them seem to think they are.
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Re: NF

[personal profile] diet_poison 2012-09-30 01:58 pm (UTC)(link)
So because some of them "seem to think" they are, you're going to treat them all as though all of them really are?

What?

Plenty of parents with babies and young children get sitters or help from their SO's to go out and have a good time with their adult friends.

You sound kinda bitter.

Re: NF

(Anonymous) 2012-09-30 04:42 pm (UTC)(link)
Hey, I'm a new anon!
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Re: NF

[personal profile] diet_poison 2012-09-30 07:46 pm (UTC)(link)
Uh, hi, new anon?

You didn't say you were a new anon and you implied heavily that you agreed with the original anon, so...