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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-09-29 03:17 pm

[ SECRET POST #2097 ]


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NF

(Anonymous) 2012-09-29 08:47 pm (UTC)(link)
Sounds like your friend might be feeling abandoned by you and jealous maybe? Not much you can do though except just let them get on with it. I know how it can feel being single and childless when your friends around you get married and have kids. It's really difficult because you end up feeling like a combination of a loser and a sad person. Often feeling like there's a club they are all in that you aren't.

I can understand someone being bitter and defensive. I've never gone that way, always happy for friends that get married, and I like their kids, I think it's lovely, I just feel very depressed I've not had the same luck as them, unlike your friend, I try not to be bitter. It's not their fault I've been unlucky in the world of relationships and family.
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Re: NF

[personal profile] diet_poison 2012-09-29 08:56 pm (UTC)(link)
I think it makes a difference if you're single and childless even though you want an SO or children, or if you are single/childfree because it's your choice.

Either way, though, said friend might be jealous of OP's attention going somewhere other than them/mutual friends, but s/he is still treating OP like crap and being extremely disrespectful of her life choices.