[ SECRET POST #2097 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2097 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

When I said "you can't help it", I meant that as human beings with weaknesses and a very strong curiousity about certain things. Of course I can help it - if I listened to my moral code. In this case, I made a decision NOT to.

Having his number, along with his address, are the only connections I have allowed myself to have with him, because I need them. I don't want to do anything with them because being a stalker is not the relationship I want with him. I won't accidently dial him because I'm one of those weirdos who still dials numbers from memory. He doesn't have my number. If he ever gives me his number, then I will immediately pretend to add it to my contacts, and I'll feel so much better for having it 'legally'. If I ever let it slip that I've had his number for a couple of years now or I dialed him accidently, I will tell him the truth - that I was googling a local softball league and found his cell number on one of the home pages for coaches. It was a public page, so I don't think it's underhanded that I have it. And I told him a while ago that I "accidently" found him on that home page - I made it sound like a "wow, what a coincidence, huh!?" kind of thing. So while it's shady to have, I think I'm on the right side of the line of sketchiness.

[(Anonymous)]

I won't accidently dial him because I'm one of those weirdos who still dials numbers from memory

That assumes you'll never butt-dial him or accidentally dial him from your phone bouncing around in your purse/bag/backpack/whatever from your contacts list...

[diet_poison]

I'm one of those weirdos who still dials numbers from memory.

I used to do that...I had 20+ numbers memorized at a given time...

Anyway, at least it seems you have a clear head and not bad intentions. *shrug* The only thing that really bothered me about your first comment was the "I can't help it" part but apparently that's not what you really meant...

[(Anonymous)]

I'm realizing, more and more, that you're actually kind of an idiot.

[diet_poison]

An anonymous person on the Internet thinks I'm an idiot. (That's totally the first time that's happened!) Guess I better totally change all my opinions and my way of thinking. My life will never be the same. Thank you for your constructive feedback, anon ♥

[(Anonymous)]

Just so we're clear with all the anonys bouncing around, I'm the anony you commented to originally but NOT the anony who called you an idiot. I actually think you make sense, and at least you don't think I'm a complete loon like the others downthread. *sigh*

[diet_poison]

*shrug* I do think what you did was a bit sketchy, honestly. I just didn't think it was as extreme as some people made it out to be. The main reason I commented in the first place was, again, the whole "I can't help it" thing and I do agree that that can be used to justify awful things and is a dangerous way to be thinking about something.

Then again I've never been stalked or stalked anyone, so I don't have any firsthand experience with this sort of thing.

Now that I think about it, if a person (especially a guy - I'm a girl) found my address through some underhanded means - especially if they paid for it - I would find that really creepy and probably try to avoid that person. If, otoh, they found it through a directory or something, that wouldn't really bother me...but I guess those are very different things.