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fandomsecrets2012-09-29 03:17 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2012-09-29 03:17 pm
[ SECRET POST #2097 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2097 ⌋
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Re: NF
Details?
When you get married you get obsessed with your significant other
lol, not if it's a healthy marriage.
and everyone else has to be appointments to even see you.
Dramatic much...?
Once you have a baby your life is over. The part of you that used to exist is now over, that part of the book is SHUT. Things will never be the same. You die when your child is born and everything you ever were is dedicated to that child. There's no room there for a fun-loving, single, kid-at-heart.
This whole paragraph is a crock of shit.
I don't care how much you seem to think you can juggle everything. You can't.
Except some people can, and do. Honestly, you sound mad that one of your friends made some changes in their life and rearranged their priorities a little bit. Now it would be one thing if they totally cut you off without warning or reason, which may or may not be connected to other changes in their life, but in many cases like this it just involves them maybe not making you quite as important time-wise as you were before, but still valuing you as a friend.
Fact is, many people want to seek out a significant other to spend their life with. Many of those people want to have a family. For those who don't, there's nothing wrong with that decision, but if you want to hold back your friends from finding what will make them happy just so you can all live the single life together even though that isn't really what they want out of life, then you are being selfish.
If it really bothers you that much, maybe you should seek out other single and/or childfree people and form friendships with them.