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fandomsecrets2012-10-05 05:47 pm
[ SECRET POST #2103 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2103 ⌋
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[Derren Brown - Trick of the Mind]
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[Quantum Leap]
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[Necessary Roughness]
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[nudity which is possibly sexual? / illustrated]
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[Team Starkid]
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[Teen Wolf]
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[Evangelion]
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[High School of the Dead]
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20. [WARNING for rape]

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(Anonymous) 2012-10-05 11:54 pm (UTC)(link)Oh wait.
Please stop trivializing real sexual trauma by saying that it pales in comparison to taking out a guy's pacemaker. This was probably traumatizing to Tony, yeah, and life-threatening at that, but attempted murder does not carry the same weight or history as sexual assault.
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(Anonymous) 2012-10-06 12:12 am (UTC)(link)However, I do understand what other-anon meant. Scenes where characters are drugged/powerless in movies or shows while someone is tampering with their body remind me of my own experiences way more than actual rape scenes, and they're much more common.
Not the OP, by the way.
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(Anonymous) 2012-10-06 12:51 am (UTC)(link)And btw, to the anon who was the impetus for the comment I'm replying to -
It might come as a shock to you that people have different triggers based on their experiences. To insist - as your comment seems to me to imply - that "it's only rape if there is penile penetration" is ... well, it's incredibly dickish of you.
If someone says that "seeing a scene where someone is powerless while things they do not consent to are being done to them" triggers rape flashbacks .. well, whether that's your experience or not, STFU.
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(Anonymous) 2012-10-06 02:57 am (UTC)(link)I think you're really, really, really misreading what that anon said. Reread the comment they were responding to.
That scene is so rape it makes rape look like a wannabe of this. Do I ever understand why the OP used it.
This comment really looks like they're saying that this scene makes actual rape just look like a 'wannabe'. Whether or not they intend to, the commenter comes across as trivializing actual rape. They're not saying that rape scenes aren't as triggering as this scene, they're not even saying that rape scenes are just 'wannabes' in comparison to that scene, they're saying that rape in reality is just a 'wannabe' compared to that scene. That's... kind of really insensitive?
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(Anonymous) 2012-10-06 02:07 am (UTC)(link)Please stop trivializing real sexual trauma
Congratulations, you win the "rushing to score SJW points off the speck in somebody else's eye and tripping over the two-by-four you just planted in your own" award for the day. Go sit on a fucking cactus.
Signed,
Someone who was raped by another woman, with nary a dick in sight, and must've missed the memo that nobody is allowed to use tongue-in-cheek hyperbole as soon as rape enters the discussion. Wait, did I get taken off the mailing list because there's no Real Sexual Trauma until dicks are involved?
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(Anonymous) 2012-10-06 02:10 am (UTC)(link)Second, not all attempted murder is comparable from a forced intimacy perspective.
Not applicable in the Ironman case - Certain stabbing murders contain a sexual drive in the murder.
Applicable in the Ironman case - Paralyzing someone and then removing a life saving device that is embedding in you after slicing their shirt (because lifting it wasn't possible?) and then leaving you to die slowly as the shrapnel rips apart your heart is very intimate and it is someone else controlling your body and it's reactions.
Not quite the same as someone shooting you from behind and killing you instantly.
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(Anonymous) 2012-10-06 02:41 am (UTC)(link)And then there was the way the scene was filmed. The camera angles and framing to put Tony as far down as possible. The position Tony was lying in, on his back, completely exposed, staring up at Stane. Oh, and the blood trickling out of his ears. And that tiny jerk and gasp he made when Stane took what he wanted from his body after stripping away all its autonomy.
Yeah, I don't know why someone might be reminded of rape from seeing that. Rape isn't about the sexual act, it's about everything else associated with the act.
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