[ SECRET POST #2105 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2105 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

The real question here is, why the hell do you feel the need to inform your friends about what you do in bed? Or your parents? O_o

[(Anonymous)]

MTE lol

"After last time we had sex, I curled up at Master's feet because I was so exhausted from all the whipping and restraining and nipple clamps. Oh no. My mother will surely kill me for this when I casually mention it over the Thanksgiving dinner table."

[(Anonymous)]

I lol'd. I would love to see that conversation.

[(Anonymous)]

As a parent who found an open box of sex toys whilst helping son move house, sometimes these conversations just arise, y'know.

For the record, I closed the box again, we had a brief conversation, and I packed the subject away in my giant mental filing cabiner marked "things about your adult child that are none of your business".

[(Anonymous)]

LOL

You sound like an awesome parent though.

[harp]

You do sound like an awesome parent for doing the best you could with such an awkward situation. Where's that great Dave Barry Quote?

The best thing to do is confront their concerns head-on, by sitting down with them, face to face, and lying.

"Mom and Dad," you should say, "Bill and I are not living together. He came over to my apartment this morning to help me kill a spider and by mistake he left his toothbrush and all his clothes and furniture."

Your parents will pretend they believe you, because the truth is they
really don't want to even think about the idea of you and S-E-X. All parents are like this. No matter how old you get, in their minds you will always have the wisdom and emotional maturity of Beaver Cleaver.
(Please to not be taking as "this is you"; disclaimer because you never can tell the reaction you'll get on FS)

[(Anonymous)]

Too big a chance they'll find out about it somehow?

[ooh_mrdarcy]

Idk, I sometimes inform my parents out of good-natured spite so I can watch them freak out.

[meova]

Sometimes it's hard to avoid, for instance when one of your friends helps you move furniture around and stumble upon toys. (Awkward :P )
Or, if you're masochistic, when you accidentally got bruises on places that are hard to hide/explain.
And if you still live with your parents, it's hard to even be interested in this without them noticing somewhat. I can't count the times my mum walked in on me researching this stuff. xD

[(Anonymous)]

Was about to say the same thing. I'm into BDSM and nobody but my best friend knows about it. Just don't have sex at home if you still live with your parents, and if you're worried about bruises, just talk to your dom. Any good dom understands if you tell him that you can't have bruises or scratches in visible places. (Because, let's face it, most people can't afford to run around with bruises on their face because of work, family etc.)

Unless you feel the urge to tell everyone you know about your sex life, I fail to see your problem.

[omorka]

Maybe OP doesn't want to live in the leather closet for all of zir life. Would you have asked the same question about someone struggling with coming out as LGBTQ? In both cases, it affects a great deal of any intimate relationship, how you go about finding partners, potential custody issues with children, etc. It's not just about "what you do in bed." BDSM just happens to be easier to stay closeted about.