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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-10-28 03:33 pm

[ SECRET POST #2126 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2126 ⌋

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Re: Annnnnd ties are cut, and I GOTTA BITCH TO SOMEONE

(Anonymous) 2012-10-29 02:10 am (UTC)(link)
I cut ties with a friend recently, actually, and for pretty similar reasons. This friend in particular was one of those whiny sort of guys, but we'd been friends since junior high, even dated for a little bit in early high school. We drifted apart a little because of far away colleges, but we still kept up through Facebook for the most part.

Then he started posting links to MRA blogs. Then he started straight up bashing women. I asked him what was up in as nice of a way as I could manage, and I got a whole lot of mansplaining "Nice Guy" bullshit as a response, complete with insults about working women (my mother), women who've had abortions (my sister), and women who don't plan to have children ever, much less wait on a husband (me.) And that was it, point of no return reached. I haven't spoken to him since, and I don't plan to ever again.

The cut ties seemed justifiable to me, because his views were hateful towards me, my family, my friends, and others. I need not that kind of ignorance in my day to day life.