[ SECRET POST #2126 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2126 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Maturity question

[(Anonymous)]

Really don't see the "doing maturity wrong" thing here. People don't jettison their parents from their life as a matter of course when they get older (assuming a good relationship here).

Re: Maturity question

[(Anonymous)]

AYRT

Maybe it's a cultural thing? It's pretty common where I grew up to leave home and not make a whole lot of contact with your parents.

I dunno, it's pretty old fashioned, I guess.

Re: Maturity question

[unicornherds]

Out of curiosity, where did you grow up? I agree with the anon you replied to, around my area (northeast USA) it's pretty common to keep in close relationship with your parents.

Re: Maturity question

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AYRT

Also NE US, but I grew up in a very rural, impoverished area, where in order to get the funds to be self sufficient, you have to move away from the area. Or be satisfied with substandard living conditions and even lower pay, and accept help from parents or family.

Re: Maturity question

[unicornherds]

Oh yeah, it's definitely hard to stay close and make money. I grew up in a very small town with no jobs outside of working from home or working at the schools, so a good majority of people move away. But it's still pretty normal for people to be excited to visit (or be visited by) family and have a close relationship (emotionally if not physically).

Re: Maturity question

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ayrt

Hm... Interestingly, I think where I grew up, the notion of staying in touch with parents is seen as more old-fashioned, and people seem to think it's either sweet or weird... But I have trouble seeing any amount of parental-adult child contact as being a mark of maturity, though, outside of the reasons for it (i.e., the difference between "I genuinely like the relationship my parents and I have" vs. "I spent all my money on this rad dirt bike and need more for the matching leather jacket"). Also, fwiw, I have a fluctuating but overall probably moderate amount of contact with my parents, while my husband has what feels like a TON of contact with his, and by most other social markers, he's the more mature one :P.