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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-11-14 06:07 pm

[ SECRET POST #2143 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2143 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Ariel Winter/Modern Family]


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[Chrono Crusade]


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[Shezow]


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[Desperate Romantics]


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[Rugby union, Brad Barritt / Mouritz Botha]


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[999/Virtue's Last Reward]


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[Fringe]


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[Homestuck]


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[ASoIaF/Jack White]


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[Revenge]


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[Crash Bandicoot]


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[scarlett johansson/ryan reynolds]


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[Marvel Cinematic Universe, Journey Into Mystery 2011]


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[Tokyo Dogs]


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[Fate/stay night]


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[Inazuma Eleven]


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[Avatar: The Last Airbender]


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[Suits]


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[Once Upon a Time]


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(Anonymous) 2012-11-14 11:52 pm (UTC)(link)
The mom says she's lying, and wants to live with the sister because there she won't have to do any chores and can have sex with her 18yo boyfriend. And I've met entitled, brat-tastic kids who WOULD lie about something like that and for those reasons, so I'm not sure how to feel about the situation.

But I feel for the kid if the allegations are true and I feel for the mom if they're not. The mom's been getting a lot of flack both for "Why would you let your 14yo date an 18yo?" and for being sex negative, 1. but there comes a point where you can't force your kids to do/not do something, short of locking them up (which, illegal) and 2. 14 is too young to be having sex. There, I said it.

(Anonymous) 2012-11-14 11:56 pm (UTC)(link)
i don't think a judge would be able to separate a child from their mother unless there was a really good case that the parent was abusive.

the fact that some of the people on the show and on set have come out and talked about the mother's behaviour make me inclined to believe her.

making up a story about an abusive mother and getting judges and lawyers involved just to hang out with your boyfriend seems more far fetched to me.

(Anonymous) 2012-11-15 12:32 am (UTC)(link)
Pretty sure that in some states, if the charge is serious enough, the minor will be taken out of the home while an investigation is going on but then may be returned if nothing untoward shows up. Because how shitty would it be if somebody said "I'm being abused," and the authorities said "OK, hang around there and maybe be abused some more while we look into it" and then that person winds up dead or something.

But no clue of California is one of those states.

(Anonymous) 2012-11-15 12:02 am (UTC)(link)
Isn't it illegal for an 18 year old (considered and adult) to have sex with a 14 year old (considered a child)?

(Anonymous) 2012-11-15 12:34 am (UTC)(link)
Depends on where you are, I think. Someone mentioned California, in which case the answer is "hell yes".
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[personal profile] making_excuses 2012-11-15 12:20 am (UTC)(link)
For someone to go that far with accusations something must be wrong.

And as someone who lived with an emotional abusive step parent and no one believed me, because she was so nice, so I had to be attention seeking. I always believe people when they say their parents abuse them...

(Anonymous) 2012-11-15 12:30 am (UTC)(link)
Given that Ariel's sister was also removed from the household when she was 12 due to abuse, I'm leaning more towards believing that the mother is abusive. It was twenty years apart and the same abuse allegations, but different siblings? The cast of Modern Life has gone on record as saying that the mother did things like smack her (but made sure to check that she didn't bruise), verbally berate her and intentionally dressed her in a more adult/sexy manner because she (the mom) didn't like that Ariel was playing a nerdy role.

Oh and also severally restrict her diet including denying her food. Not many of the main cast noticed, but some background crew have gone on record as stating they'd been planning on trying to sneak sandwiches to Ariel because her mom denied her food so often...

So yeah. My two cents.

(Anonymous) 2012-11-15 12:42 am (UTC)(link)
dressed her in a more adult/sexy manner because she (the mom) didn't like that Ariel was playing a nerdy role.

Hence the 18 year-old boyfriend she wants to have sex with? Can't have it both ways, mom!