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⌈ Secret Post #2143 ⌋

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So, I know it's not the same situation, but well, sometimes it helps to know other people are out there in shitty situations, too.

My mother's son (who is older than me) raped/molested me for years when I was a young child. Though I eventually worked myself out of the layers of lies he'd brainwashed into me and told my parents, we never told my little brother. I'm 29 now, my brother is 27, and I'm 99% certain my parents have never said anything. There's never been a good time to bring it up with him either because who the hell wants their older sister telling them that she was raped by someone you still consider a brother?

If my little brother figured it out (and it wouldn't be that hard), I would really like for him to say, "Hey, you know what? Mom's son is a piece of shit, and I'm sorry he did that to you." Then I would say, "Well, don't ever let him visit your kids when you have them."

And that would be the end of that.

So, if you want to tell your sibling and/or parent that you know, you don't give a shit, and you're sorry that happened, go for it. They'll probably appreciate it because incestuous rape can make you feel like you're the most unworthy piece of shit on the planet and if anyone in your family found out who didn't already know, they would hate you/treat you differently/etc.

So yeah.

I'm not anoning because I'm not ashamed of this anymore. (Also, if you want to chat, OP, feel free to message me.)

OP

Right now I can't see myself mentioning it. Like ever. It's just this thing that's in my head now and won't ever go away. I don't feel any different toward my sibling, because it's not as if it's something they did. It's kind of shook up my outlook on my mother, though, because her relationship with her kids was always up and down when we were growing up, and I don't know... It doesn't make it better, obviously, but it's something to consider when thinking about why she acted the way she acted.

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