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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-11-14 06:07 pm

[ SECRET POST #2143 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2143 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Ariel Winter/Modern Family]


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[Chrono Crusade]


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[Shezow]


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[Desperate Romantics]


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[Rugby union, Brad Barritt / Mouritz Botha]


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[999/Virtue's Last Reward]


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[Fringe]


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[Homestuck]


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[ASoIaF/Jack White]


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[Revenge]


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[Crash Bandicoot]


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[scarlett johansson/ryan reynolds]


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[Marvel Cinematic Universe, Journey Into Mystery 2011]


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[Tokyo Dogs]


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[Fate/stay night]


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[Inazuma Eleven]


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[Avatar: The Last Airbender]


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[Suits]


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[Once Upon a Time]


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Re: tw: rape, incest

(Anonymous) 2012-11-15 04:13 am (UTC)(link)
Honestly, anon. It sounds like you're jumping the gun. I know you say your not, but...well. Occam's Razor is usually a good thing to hold to in circumstances like that, and I seriously doubt that 'product of incestuous rape' is the theory that makes the least assumptions, or is the simplest. Also, how much of what you pieced together could be something that was taken out of context, or mean multiple things? I'm not saying that there's no way it could happen, but in the scale of things that could happen? It's definitely on the side of 'probably not'.

Even if that is what happened, why do you have to do anything about it? Seriously, how would speaking up about it benefit anyone? It would probably lead to [I assume] your mother being shamed*, and your older sibling have a whole host of negative things attached to them, including having to suddenly deal with the fact they're a product of one of their mother's worst experiences. Not to mention that the relative who did it would probably get off scott free. Sure, there might be a negative reaction to them for a while, but sadly society tends to forget rape pretty quickly if it doesn't meat a specific set of circumstances - if it even gets out that's what happened. At this point it's been long enough that even if your mother did press charges, chances are it would be beyond the statute of limitations.

No, I think it's better to find someone you can talk to about this, a therapist if possible, and leave it at that .