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fandomsecrets2012-11-18 02:28 pm
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(Anonymous) 2012-11-18 10:35 pm (UTC)(link)Honestly, my problem isn't the BDSM, or anything like that. Point in fact, I've been in BDSM relationships and really enjoyed it. So I really don't have a problem with the lifestyle, or people enjoying it/having it in fantasies. My problem [with 50 shades, anyways] is that it isn't how it's portrayed in the book, and that what happens there is, at best, borderline abuse.
He doesn't respect when she says 'No', he tries to pressure her into signing a contract that would mean she didn't ever have the right to say 'no' to what he wanted to do when he wanted to do it* [and thus communicated that what she wanted sexually didn't matter], tried to get her into a 24/7 BDSM relationship when she wasn't even sure she *wanted* to be into a BDSM relationship and she'd never really been in a sexual relationship prior to that of any type. All of which plays into negative stereotypes of the BDSM community, and the whole 'She wants it!' one of abuse.
Twilight...I don't like it, and I don't care for how it portrays both stalker-ish behavior and certain types abusive behavior but really...that one I'm just annoyed by some of the stuff some of the fans I know have said/done.