[ SECRET POST #2150 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2150 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Comments

[truxillogical]

No, I feel you, OP.

Sometimes, I'll be close to being internet-friends with someone, and then for no good reason, I'll spook. I don't even realize I'm doing it, just one day it's, "Oh, I'll respond to that e-mail later, when I'm not so tired so I can put some thought into it." And I put it off and off, and then when I want to, it's been too long to respond, and now I feel like a dumb dummy, and they probably didn't want to be friends anyway.

To be fair, I do this in arenas outside of fandom. Heck, there were some geeky+work-ish related e-mails that would take me days to respond to, and only after having a friend check the response because I just Don't Know How To Social.

I do like the internet friends I have. But specifically in fandom, I'm always worried about it, because I feel like I can only half participate in fandom as it is.


(And, for what it's worth, my IRL friends are easier because we've known each other for over a decade so they are used to all my little hang-ups, I can see their faces/hear their voices, and as friends, we can just "hang out" in the same space. It's apples to oranges, really.)