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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-11-22 06:21 pm

[ SECRET POST #2151 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2151 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Scrubs/How I Met Your Mother]


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[Aladdin]


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[Russian politics]


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[World of Warcraft]


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[Hetalia]


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[Community]


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[50 Shades of Grey/Betty]


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[Wreck-It Ralph]


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[American Horror Story]


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[Tom Hiddleston]


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[Young Avengers]


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[Saint Seiya Omega]


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[The Mysterious Cities of Gold]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 022 secrets from Secret Submission Post #307.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
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[personal profile] stainless 2012-11-23 12:37 am (UTC)(link)
Why do you think your life will never get better? What have you tried so far?

I don't mean to say people don't have hard lives, but "my life will never improve" can be a self-fulfilling prophecy, OP.
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[personal profile] dazzledfirestar 2012-11-23 01:50 am (UTC)(link)
This, exactly.

While having a positive attitude isn't going to magically lift anyone out of a shitty situation, "things will NEVER get better" pretty much guarantees you're not getting out because you've just given up.
stainless: Megatron and Starscream standing in wreckage, reads ALL YOUR BASE ARE BELONG TO US (Default)

[personal profile] stainless 2012-11-23 01:59 am (UTC)(link)
Yup.

(Anonymous) 2012-11-23 02:21 am (UTC)(link)
Two words...

Victim Mentality

stainless: Megatron and Starscream standing in wreckage, reads ALL YOUR BASE ARE BELONG TO US (Default)

[personal profile] stainless 2012-11-23 02:28 am (UTC)(link)
Pretty much, yeah.

Unfortunately some people get so caught up in misunderstanding SJW-y stuff that they forget it exists, sadly.
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[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2012-11-23 03:16 am (UTC)(link)
Bullshit.

I don't know why their life is shit, but I know nobody likes a whiner.

Besides, we aren't discussing an incident, or even their situation. This is a STATE OF MIND.

And that is something you must take responsibility for yourself.

It's not victim blaming when it's actually your fault!

da

(Anonymous) 2012-11-23 04:03 am (UTC)(link)
Saying someone's operating under victim mentality is pretty much the exact opposite of making accusations of victim blaming. AYRT was pretty much saying people with the OP's mindset make themselves out to be the victim in situations that are either no one's fault, or are directly caused by their own actions or inactions, rather than taking responsibility for their lives.
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Re: da

[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2012-11-23 04:23 am (UTC)(link)
ooohh.

Yeah, I didn't read that very well.

Whelp, I'm stupid.

Re: da

(Anonymous) 2012-11-23 04:26 pm (UTC)(link)
its okay everyone has an off day once in a while