[ SECRET POST #2169 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2169 ⌋

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Comments

Re: -cough- Bisexuality -cough-

[(Anonymous)]

When did "Questioning" become a thing? Are people who are not entirely sure of their sexuality so oppressed? Serious question.

Maybe I'm biased, because I've had a lot of so called "fake gay girls" hit on me in my time. They were using me to determine if they were gay or straight. Like, they would go out on dates with me, eventually this would lead to kissing and more - and then a few weeks later it was like "Well, you're a great girl but you showed me I'm not gay. I'm with boy XY now, I hope you will find your true love one day, yadda yadda" and no fucking one called them out on that because they were "just finding out about their sexuality~~".

This shit happened to me four times within two years. And then I stopped going to gay clubs (where I had met all of these "let's try being lesbian" chicks).

I really think you can come to terms with your sexuality without making it a group/project/whatever :/

Re: -cough- Bisexuality -cough-

[thaurfea]

Think about this. What if there were no safe spaces, like a lesbian bar, for a questioning person to try to figure out what their sexuality is? I'm sure there are more questioning people who eventually decide they're queer than there are those who decide they're totally straight. I know everyone's coming-out experience is different, but for a lot of people there's a period where they're starting to realize they might be queer but haven't quite come to grips with it yet. Should we exclude from the queer community anyone who hasn't carved their label in stone? Hell, I've been out for almost ten years now and I'm still not sure what label fits me best.

tl;dr I'm sorry you've had bad experiences but serious answer, yes, questioning should be included.