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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-12-24 09:42 pm

[ SECRET POST #2183 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2183 ⌋

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Sorry for late, overslept.

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(Anonymous) 2012-12-25 04:35 pm (UTC)(link)
This debate between the genderqueer community is the reason why the first thing I always ask someone who states that they are genderqueer, "what are your pronouns?" I don't want to insult someone by objectifying them if they consider "it" to be objectifying, but I also don't want to seem like one of those people who goes too far with social justice or whatever you want to call it.

I don't really know, I guess just want to be sensitive without coming across as condescending? I sometimes worry that even asking that question may come across as condescending, though.

(Anonymous) 2012-12-25 04:53 pm (UTC)(link)
Asking the question doesn't make you condescending. What would make you condescending would be if you started arguing with the answer you're given because you don't feel comfortable calling the person what they want to be called.

I've gotten that so many times when I tell people I don't even care about pronouns. I get the "well you really should, you know, because I'm not genderqueer but I took Sociology 101 and I know more about this than you" line. And virtually nothing in the world will piss me off faster than that attitude that I don't know my own identity.

(Anonymous) 2012-12-25 08:26 pm (UTC)(link)
This convinces me of nothing more than that all Sociology 101 teachers in the US need to be smacked upside the hide with a clue-by-four.

(I was going to say shot, and end with "...then the lawyers," but I didn't want to chance people not getting the Shakespeare reference, what with CT still being in the news.)

sa

(Anonymous) 2012-12-25 08:28 pm (UTC)(link)
HEAD. Smacked upside the HEAD. I kin type gud no? LOL. BP is about 84/52 according to how I'm feeling right now, and have been feeling all day.....yaaaaaggggghhh
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Re: sa

[personal profile] corvigryph 2012-12-26 04:41 am (UTC)(link)
"hide" works too haha