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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-01-02 06:55 pm

[ SECRET POST #2192 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2192 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-01-03 01:54 am (UTC)(link)
i am a loser with no life

i am like this close to having a break down

and i can't find a therapist that's right for me, not to mention all the time you have to wait to get an initial appointment

sometimes i can tell myself i'm happy with just being online and having my hobbies

but it's just little lies to try to get through the down time, it feels like the bare minimum for survival

because online people are fine and all but it doesn't replace human contact

it doesn't replace going out and sharing an experience with people

i have an internet connection and can talk to people located all over the world but i'm so isolated

(Anonymous) 2013-01-03 01:59 am (UTC)(link)
oh, anon, i really hope things get better for you. i've been there, and it's awful. but it can improve, and i really hope it does.

(Anonymous) 2013-01-03 02:46 am (UTC)(link)
I am sorry that you feel this way, but I want you to know two things: 1) Not everyone who is alone, as you are, is lonely, like you. That is okay and they are not lying. 2) Please, please, don't feel that you are less valuable as a person because you're alone. I hope things get better, whatever that means personally for you.
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[personal profile] diet_poison 2013-01-03 03:42 am (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry to hear that you're so lonely, anon. =( Isolation and loneliness are crushing.

I can tell you from experience that finding the right therapist can take time and trial. I went through four before finding the one I have now and she has made an amazing difference to me.

Hang in there and I hope things get better for you soon. I hope you can find a way to meet people who have similar interests to you irl. You could always try searching for big groups of people who share your fandoms/interests and seeing if there is any kind of organized meetup/convention/network for specific geographical areas? I know a few of my fandoms have things like that.

hugs <3
Edited 2013-01-03 03:42 (UTC)