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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-01-05 02:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #2195 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2195 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-01-05 10:42 pm (UTC)(link)
Yeah, no, saying that you think it's gross is judgmental. Especially when you're specifically replying to a secret about wanting to see more of it with how you think it's gross.
ext_81845: amuro ray from mobile suit gundam, in his underwear, from the doan's island episode (WTF?!)

[identity profile] childings.livejournal.com 2013-01-05 10:50 pm (UTC)(link)
It's not though? It's my own personal opinion, there's no judgment there and I never even said OP was a bad person for liking incest fic, now if they stated going on about how incest is not that bad IRL or something it would be different, but they never did

(Anonymous) 2013-01-06 01:15 am (UTC)(link)
It's my own personal opinion

Then your personal opinion is judgmental.

(Anonymous) 2013-01-06 02:14 am (UTC)(link)
And you're been socialised to believe you should never have a negative opinion on anything subjective lest it hurt someone's feefees somewhere.

(Anonymous) 2013-01-06 04:36 am (UTC)(link)
+1 Sorry to see the SJWs are winning this round. 9/10 OP you done good, almost everyone fell for it.

(Anonymous) 2013-01-06 06:52 am (UTC)(link)
because personal opinions are sentient being woah

psshh

(Anonymous) 2013-01-06 08:14 am (UTC)(link)
omg I just got the mental image of people's personal opinions having an animal form

like the muggle equivalent of a patronus

or

something
ext_81845: amuro ray from mobile suit gundam, in his underwear, from the doan's island episode (WTF?!)

[identity profile] childings.livejournal.com 2013-01-06 08:43 am (UTC)(link)
Also, at the end of the day we are talking about finding sex between a dude and his mom gross

Just thought I would throw that out there for some context so we don't get so caught up in this discussion that we forget why I said "gross" to begin with

I mean this is kind of like saying "gross" when someone says their fetish is eating feces, go ahead and eat feces all you want but I have the right to say "gross", ok

(Anonymous) 2013-01-06 04:20 pm (UTC)(link)
But that's okay. It is absolutely perfectly 100% okay to make a judgment about something (that's basically what an opinion is!). It's even okay to offer up criticism of different judgments. However, it is not okay to prevent other people from making different judgments, or to insult/harass/otherwise be a dick to people who have made different judgments.

(Anonymous) 2013-01-05 11:22 pm (UTC)(link)
You're being judgemental of someone's opinion because you're reading wayyy to much into it.

Someone says the subject of parent/child is gross. That's their opinion of the subject. Now, did it say anything about the people who want this, want to write it, or read it, no.

I have a dear friend who enjoys some parent/child. Do I think she's gross for liking it? No. Do I think maybe a fic she loves is showing is gross? Well, yes, and we end up having a laugh over it.

This subject of peoples's opinons is taken way too seriously.

(Anonymous) 2013-01-05 11:33 pm (UTC)(link)
but how can you have friends who think and like different things than you think and like

or even hates things you like

how does that work

if they hate things you like, that means that they hate you, doesn't it

-- a thing some people really think

(Anonymous) 2013-01-05 11:49 pm (UTC)(link)
ayrt

Seriously.

Like with my friend, a bunch of us were going ewwww with this one piece she was showing, and I told her, yes, it's gross, and it's written badly to boot, but if she gets something meaningful (and I still don't know what to this day) that's all that matters.

No one thought any less of her for that. There are so many other things we had in common.
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[personal profile] wauwy 2013-01-06 01:05 am (UTC)(link)
You are an intelligent person.