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If anyone was curious, we're going to try staying together for now. We're not even going to fuck with pronoun issues until it becomes an obvious thing tho and then we might re-evaluate where everything stands.

So thanks guys, I guess.

Good luck to both of you. I hope things work out in a way you both can be comfortable with.

best of luck to both of you!

Good luck to you two. It's a difficult road, but it can be worth it, I'm certain. The best advice I can offer is to be honest with each other, but most importantly with yourself. That, and try to remember that not everything is related to transition. It can have a tendency to take over your lives, but it is a long process and if you are anything like myself or any of my transgender friends or their partners you will both need something outside to occupy your thoughts.

Best wishes,

the yahoo groups anon

Good luck, and have fun! Enjoy the perks of a potentially happier partner and the joys of eating out a trans muff (if that's your bag) and try not to worry about anything else.

NAYRT
What does this mean or have to do with an ftm transition, I don't even...

Not sure what's confused you.

Potentially happier partner - someone who will potentially be happier in their body and life, and therefore happier overall and within the relationship.

trans muff - kind of obvious

trans muff - kind of obvious
Not...really...

Unless you're an insensitive jackhole.

I'm choosing to believe they mean a trans-specific hand warming device.

Don't forget your transmuff and transcarf!

More like a scarf or face warmer. Are you unfamiliar with transmuff? The warmest of the face warmers. All the cool kids are wearing them these days.

Sorry? I didn't mean to be insensitive I just honestly thought it was really obvious. It's just...body doesn't stay the same when you're on T and things change. Not quite a dick but definitely not the same as your run of the mill lady muff. Trans muff.

joys of eating out a trans muff

how is this any different than eating out a cis muff? does your vagina magically transform into something else when you're trans...?

The clitoris swells up on T. My BF calls it his dick but, personally from my perspective, I still get a ton of fun out of it. I guess if OP isn't into giving oral, it might not be such a turn on, but if it is? It's awesome. #LesbianDatingATransMan

Not sure if that's what the "trans muff" anon meant, but yeah, that's a common change that can be really enjoyable.

AYRT
What else would trans muff anon mean? (Not trying to be dicky, just really curious).

lol dicky

I see what you did there

Right? I'm so confused by the confusion. It seemed pretty straightforward to me.

But then I forget sometimes that not everyone has such intimate trans* knowledge.

To me, it reminded me of creepy "chaser" type comments, like when someone fetishizes a trans person because they look male/female, but have the genitals of the opposite sex.

I've encountered guys who got off on the idea of sleeping with trans men because it felt like a "safe" way to explore sex with men. There's this connotation of "it's okay because they have vaginas, so they aren't really dudes."

Question, did you see the original thread on this topic? Because there was an anon who went into detail about their relationship with their trans partner, and honestly this reply sounded a lot like the same person. So I was reading it with that background, which meant I skipped the creepster vibes. But I can see your POV if you didn't have that background. I mean I don't think the comment was meant in the offensive chaser vibe, but I understand your reading.

Which comment are you referring to? I wasn't saying the lesbian with a trans partner is coming across as a "chaser." I was just replying to her point about how T can enlarge the clit, which is totally legit.

I was saying I got a chaser vibe from the comment above about "trans muff," which I think was by someone else. The wording, and the part about "if that's you're thing," was what gave that vibe to me.

But I could be totally wrong.

Some trans people are really uncomfortable being with people who seem to be into them because they're a "guy with a vagina" or a "chick with a dick." Especially since those body parts can cause a lot of dysphoria, and aren't exactly "sexy" to many trans people who have them.

Good luck. I hope things turn out well for you guys, whether you stay together in the long run or not.

I'm very happy for you both and wish you the best of luck!

Good luck!

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