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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-01-26 03:17 pm

[ SECRET POST #2216 ]


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(Anonymous) 2013-01-27 04:29 am (UTC)(link)
+100000

Yeah. The "well I expect you to shave" conversation is one a potential partner (especially a dude) has to tread very lightly with me on, because the wrong answer (i.e., the sort of responses you mentioned here) disqualifies them instantly from entering my muffin shop.
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[personal profile] fuchsiascreams 2013-01-27 04:42 am (UTC)(link)
I fucking lost it when you said "muffin shop". (I wonder if that's what Emilie Autumn calls her vagina.)

Anyway, I agree. If you're just a guy who likes how it looks, whatever, maybe I'll shave it sometimes for you. But if you're trying to dictate how my body looks, despite my personal feelings about it, because you want to be sexually aroused? You can go find yourself another bald vagina.

(That being said, I don't really understanding what's so great about it anyway, unless you really, really like performing oral sex on women. I asked my dad about this and he said that he personally prefers pubic hair and can't understand why men nowadays want women to shave.)

(Anonymous) 2013-01-27 09:37 am (UTC)(link)
I agree with you so much about this, but I'm of an older generation, probably closer to your Dad's age, I can't bear that these men are policing women's bodies, and I do think the world has become more sexist again, it's like it's going backwards.

If it helps I once read an internet forum about it, and the men were all saying they prefer pubic hair, they felt it was more fragrant (hah) and mostly they found shaved pubes had a chicken skin effect (which I agree with, I think it looks awful shaved. ) A lot of them did like some kind of waxing, trimming, but they said they were usually so grateful to be getting sex that they didn't even care! Thing is this was a forum where the men are probably more into their 30s or so, but still I got the feeling it was women policing themselves in this case and men not really bothered.