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Genuinely curious: if marriage is fine, would you then move together with your spouse, or would you want your own living quarters still? I remember reading about a couple (though this was some time ago) who rented two different apartments next to each other, since both had jobs with irregular hours -- I want to say at least one was a writer. Sometimes they would spend the night together, sometimes not.

I remember reading about a couple (though this was some time ago) who rented two different apartments next to each other

Man, that would be awesome. I was thinking about maybe just having a separate bedroom from my spouse but that's tops

^not op

Yeah, I'd still want to live on my own. The solution you described would be perfect of course, I've proposed it too but so far he only responded by saying he didn't like where I live.

ayrt

Hm, his answer is a bit of a non-sequitur to "What if we had two different but neighboring apartments?", unless your proposal included you staying where you were and he would move to you. If it did, that's a pretty definitive limiter on options that I think would cause understandable balking from most people. If not, then -- personally (and either way), I would ask for reasons why not outside of "that's not how I envisioned my future", and let him think about it if he needs to. Because even and especially if the idea itself is something utterly foreign to him, if he's willing to think it through rather than dismiss it out of hand entirely, that's a big thing (and the same goes for your consideration of his proposal to cohabitate). I think being able to lay out both your priorities together can be a good way to sort them and figure out where the relationship itself lies among them.

Helena Bonham Carter and Tim Burton (used to) do this. I'm not sure if they're still in that kind of living arrangement, but I heard her talk about it in an interview once and thought I WANT THAT.

Is that how she was able to carry on her relationship with Johnny Depp without disturbing Burton's sleep

Did Burton come over to watch and draw disturbing fanart

Are you sure you didn't mean to ask if that was how Tim and Johnny carried on without waking Helena?

Tim Burton has no interest in fucking Johnny Depp. He does however have an interest in watching Johnny Depp fuck others.

lol

NGL, I think this would be the only way I could ever live with someone. Or at least some kind of separate space.

Separate bathrooms go a looooong way for me and SO XD

My spouse and me just finally got to a point last year where we can afford to rent a place where we have separate bedrooms, and this is AMAZING. I really don't get why anyone would share a room except to save space, lol.

That's awesome, seriously. I aspire to that someday.

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