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Wondering if any anons can help inspire me for some ideas to prepare before the 14th (early I know, but I want to plan ahead)

Firstly, lingerie. So far, I own two outfits that he's seen before, but I want to get something a little different to surprise him. Basically any suggestions besides corsets (can't afford 'em) would be much appreciated. :) Preferably to go with stockings too, as that's his all time fetish.

Secondly, some lube/massage oil suggestions. I'd love to give him a massage (and receive one too), so I want to get some good quality stuff, stuff that won't break protection would be important. I've looked into some Durex branded stuff, but is it recommended? Does the 'Tingle' really tingle or does it burn or do nothing at all?

Thirdly, I'd like some kinky ideas. We've tried tying each other up, (something we both particularly enjoy), and we've played with a sex toy or two. I'm kinda interested in nipple clamps, since I like my nipples to be played with roughly, but I don't like TOO much pain either, so I'm a little hesitant about that. I've also been interested in the idea of getting something a little more hardcore (Like a paddle or something?) I actually enjoy getting spanked, although I've never openly admitted it, sooo I dunno if that's a little too much for me. xD

Finally...any sex positions people would recommend? We've done the obvious (missionary, cowgirl, doggy), but I'd like to try something different...without breaking my hip. I've yet to master the reverse yet (the angle is so HARD!) so yeah. I'd love to hear interesting ones from you experienced people. ^^

And I'm sorry I'm talking so openly about sex here. D: I didn't know who else to ask about this stuff, and you guys seem so welcoming about the world of kink...so I thought I'd implore your wisdom. ^^

Massage oils are generally...oil-based, as far as I can tell, and that's going to eat the latex. I'm sure there are some out there that can be used on condoms, but you may have to go to a specialty shop to find one that'll work.

Re: nipple clamps - you may find this useful:
http://www.albanypowerexchange.com/BDSMinfo/clothespins.htm
(there's other pages on kinky things there, too, but I think it's a little out of date and not maintained; it might give you some ideas, though)

Can't really help on the other stuff, though, but hopefully some other people will have ideas.

Ok...I'll admit the clamps link scared me a little. I think I'll save that idea for another time. ^^;

I'll keep looking into those special oils then. ^^ I'm sure I've heard of them somewhere...

Thank you for answering! *hugs*

BF has informed me that (he's pretty sure) it's less that there's oils that work with condoms and more that there are condoms that work with oils - silicone condoms in particular. They're not quite as elastic though, so there's a chance that your boyfriend might not be comfortable with them.

Ooh, thanks! :D BF hates condoms as is, so maybe he won't like the silicone ones, but it's definitely something we'll look into. :) <3

We actually use the silicone lube that we get (Wet Platinum brand) as a massage oil.

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We're not into that.

Thanks for your thoughtful reply though. :) - OP

Okay. You're going to need a good candle--the long skinny kind--something to light it with, and some basic aerobic fitness.

You wait at home for your boyfriend. Nude. When you hear him come in you need to quickly insert the candle into your vagina and light the wick at the other end. You then immediately go into a handstand with your legs as wide as possible. When he walks in I need you to say

ONE TWO THREE FOUR

YOU ARE WHO MY CUNT IS FOR

while turning around on your hands to create a revolution effect. He will always love you.

Edited 2013-02-02 22:05 (UTC)

THAT SOUNDS AWESOME!

I'll save that for his birthday. I'll stick 21 candles in and he can blow out each one.~

Thanks Chard! :D

As far as lube goes, I've tried two kinds of 'tingle' sorts myself and noticed some increased sensation / arousal (especially applied externally), I really recommend them as a general concept, though I only remember one kind specifically - called Sliquid, and it's specifically for women. Not sure what it does for guys, but I can't imagine it having a negative effect. I'm afraid I don't have any experience with massage oils.

Maybe rather than buying spanking paraphernalia yet, you should just admit you enjoy getting spanked :)

I would stay away from the "tingly" lubes; they strike me as the sort of thing that are okay when they work well, and horrifically awful when they don't.

Admitting to enjoying being spanked is a good start. Then maybe try some sensation play -- ice cubes, candle wax, a make-up brush. Hell, even tickling can be surprisingly kinky if done right.

For new positions... let me see if I can describe this usefully. Facing each other, leaning back and propped on your arms, with your legs over his, and him penetrating you. Typically you both end up with your hips off the bed, holding yourselves up on your hands and feet while he thrusts into you. It's useful for both parties being active participants and getting a good view of one another.

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