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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-02-19 06:49 pm

[ SECRET POST #2240 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2240 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-02-20 03:08 am (UTC)(link)
Has it not occurred to you that the existence of one phenomena reinforces the existence of the other?
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[personal profile] likeadeuce 2013-02-20 03:09 am (UTC)(link)
Yes, and which one is reinforced when people bring up faking although IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH WHAT OP SAID.

(Anonymous) 2013-02-20 03:13 am (UTC)(link)
It has everything to do with what OP said because it might very well be what is going on with OP. You can refuse to entertain possibilities because you dislike them, but that doesn't make them any less possible.
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[personal profile] likeadeuce 2013-02-20 03:14 am (UTC)(link)
Oh for fuck's sake, please show me where I refused to entertain a possibilty. I just suggested giving people the benefit of the doubt to be able to narrate their own experience.

So if you think that is a bad idea, we actually have a difference of opinion, and I am reinforced in my comment that you are a terrible person.

(Anonymous) 2013-02-20 03:24 am (UTC)(link)
Because declaring that someone is a terrible person as a result of having a difference of opinion is totally better than thinking that it might be possible that someone is faking a problem.

You totally have the high ground, here.

(Anonymous) 2013-02-20 08:55 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes, everyone is a terrible person except you, who are more brilliant,perceptive, noble and compassionate than EVERYONE else on the thread.

Now do go away and get over yourself, there's a dear.
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[personal profile] likeadeuce 2013-02-20 08:57 pm (UTC)(link)
You're right, "Consider giving people the benefit of the doubt and not calling them faking liars" is EXACTLY THE SAME a "I think I'm better than everyone."

I am suitably chastened and leaving now!

(Anonymous) 2013-02-20 10:00 am (UTC)(link)
The OP's situation is completely the same, regardless of whether their friends have a genuine medical condition or are faking. It doesn't matter if they're actually sick or not, because OP needs to draw fucking boundary lines stat, no matter whether they're actually sick or not.

Nobody (who is not a parent or professional health care provider) is obliged or can be expected to care for someone just because they're sick.

Nobody is obliged or can be expected to care for someone just because they're faking a sickness.

Do you see how in the OP's situation that is the exactly same thing, and therefore bringing up faking is just being a giant fucking douchebag?
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[personal profile] likeadeuce 2013-02-20 12:18 pm (UTC)(link)
*applauds*