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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-02-23 03:21 pm

[ SECRET POST #2244 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2244 ⌋

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Re: Confession thread

(Anonymous) 2013-02-23 09:58 pm (UTC)(link)
I suppose because the world isn't kind or fair. Beggars can't be choosers, and even if he doesn't deserve a girlfriend, it's still better than the alternative-which is being utterly alone. I'd much rather be miserable sometimes and be told I'm loved once in a while (Even if it's isn't true) than to have to go back to how my life was before meeting him.

Re: Confession thread

(Anonymous) 2013-02-23 10:06 pm (UTC)(link)
Being alone is honestly much better than being a bad relationship. I've lived alone nearly ten years now, and I love it! I can do what I want when I want, eat whatever I like, I don't have to fight for the remote. I've got an actual social life (limited, but so it goes) with actual friends. And people who are in unahppy relationships but who can't quite make the leap (for whatever reason, and goodness knows I stuck with a bad marriage far too long) look at me with such envy.
I will never pick up someone else's socks again.

Re: Confession thread

(Anonymous) 2013-02-23 10:17 pm (UTC)(link)
I've never had a social life. I grew up in mostly motel rooms on the outskirts of town or battered women's shelters. I moved a lot because my father was a gambleholic. The few friends I've had were all males, as I never fit into any female cliques in the eighteen schools I attended. I work in customer service now and I talk to some co-workers, but the environment is very clique-ee, and I just don't fit into any of them. I'm only in contact with one of my childhood friends and we only talk every few months. When we were in HS he would purposely avoid being seen around me in public. I spent a lot of my childhood running away and hiding from kids/teens who wanted to physically harm me. My parents had their own issues and I've spent most of my life alone and by myself.

It really isn't an issue of live alone and go hang out with friends. I know my life could have been a lot worse, but I still don't want to go back to it.

Re: Confession thread

(Anonymous) 2013-02-24 03:09 pm (UTC)(link)
Dump his ass and join some social organizations instead. Volunteer, join clubs, take group lessons, whatever. Just get out there and meet new people. He isn't worth it.

Re: Confession thread

(Anonymous) 2013-02-23 10:19 pm (UTC)(link)
DA

I absolutely and 100% agree with you (and my path sounds similar to yours), but it doesn't sound to me like OP wants to hear any of it - it sounds to me like she may like the situation she's in and gets some value and self-worth out of it, so save your breath