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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-02-23 03:21 pm

[ SECRET POST #2244 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2244 ⌋

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 05 pages, 121 secrets from Secret Submission Post #321.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2013-02-23 11:09 pm (UTC)(link)
Aw man. Tygra was my favorite Thundercat. Still, being 16 and putting up that sort of stuff to the public...it was bound to happen.

(Anonymous) 2013-02-24 01:18 am (UTC)(link)
Agreed. I know I'm building something out of nothing, but OP seems pretty young in this secret. The wording, specifically naming people that made them angry, expecting the fandom to come to their defense and deciding that it's the worst fandom EVAR because they didn't.

Also, why focus on this fifteen years later?

(Anonymous) 2013-02-24 12:21 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't care what dorky shit the OP posted. Nobody deserves to be bullied.

(Anonymous) 2013-02-24 01:55 pm (UTC)(link)
They need to be corrected though, and if the most effective way of correction is negative reinforcement for deviant behaviour, then so be it.

(Anonymous) 2013-02-24 03:58 pm (UTC)(link)
This. If it takes "bullying" to make someone act their fucking age, so be it.

(Anonymous) 2013-02-24 05:09 pm (UTC)(link)
You're a pleasant person, aren't you? Also why the scare quotes?

(Anonymous) 2013-02-24 05:40 pm (UTC)(link)
Because telling someone they're being a creepy dumbass online isn't bullying. It's a public service.

(Anonymous) 2013-02-24 06:31 pm (UTC)(link)
Too right. Too many brats think that "bullying" is just telling them something they don't like. In this case the "bullying" was telling someone they were creepy, and keeping telling them until they stopped being creepy in public. Hell, maybe if they'd grew up sooner they wouldn't feel so "bullied". Bet the anon you just replied to yourself thinks we're bullying her by saying she is being dumb in wanting to indulge someone else's unacceptable whims.

(Anonymous) 2013-02-24 09:06 pm (UTC)(link)
No. You have no idea how many times I've been really glad that I didn't tell someone they were being a dumbass online, and instead bothered to get to know them.

If you want to do an actual public service, challenge someone closer to your own size. Someone who can fight back effectively. Otherwise, don't pretend you're anything other than a bully.

(Anonymous) 2013-02-24 08:58 pm (UTC)(link)
And, what, should someone turn that logic on you and your anger problem? Because I don't care what age you are, attempting to "therapeutically" abuse someone is inappropriate.

(Anonymous) 2013-02-24 09:09 pm (UTC)(link)
lol, you're one of those people who thinks every mean thing ever said to you was "abuse."

You're funny. Keep it up.

(Anonymous) 2013-02-24 09:22 pm (UTC)(link)
Pff, no. But as long as we're playing, you're undoubtedly one of those guys who thinks nothing short of being beaten with a belt is.

(Anonymous) 2013-02-24 09:38 pm (UTC)(link)
Daddy drinks because you cry.

(Anonymous) 2013-02-24 07:00 pm (UTC)(link)
Hmm. I might agree with this if by "deviant behavior" you meant something that actually hurts people rather than making a website that makes yourself look really stupid and maybe annoys some people before they backbutton.

(Anonymous) 2013-02-24 07:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Not knowing when to stop pretending you're married to someone who doesn't exist does eventually hurt other people as well as yourself.

(Anonymous) 2013-02-24 07:33 pm (UTC)(link)
Stupid and annoying behaviours are not acceptable for anyone over 10. Displaying them beyond that is deviant and needs corrected otherwise young stupid and annoying brats grow up to be big entitled annoying and dumb brats.

(Anonymous) 2013-02-24 07:50 pm (UTC)(link)
when the paywall goes down, go check out a forum thread called "Ask me about growing up with a girl who thinks she's married to anime guys"

this thing gets really ugly if it's not snipped in the bud, trust me

(Anonymous) 2013-02-24 09:17 pm (UTC)(link)
NAYRT

I'll do that. However, "some people with weird fantasies are completely crazy looking and dysfunctional" =/= all people with weird fantasies have those issues.

(Anonymous) 2013-02-24 08:55 pm (UTC)(link)
Bullshit. You don't know them, you don't give a fuck about their well being as a person. And if your main priority is making society comfortable -- "omg, why should we have to deal with people like this?" you're being a bully.

And it's been pretty well proven that negative reinforcement creates more problems than it solves.

(Anonymous) 2013-02-24 08:58 pm (UTC)(link)
Don't you have an anime husbando you need to be having pretend sex with?

(Anonymous) 2013-02-24 09:14 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't have anything of the sort. But the fact that people who do are in the vast minority, in fandom, doesn't mean they should be acceptable targets.

(Anonymous) 2013-02-24 09:21 pm (UTC)(link)
lol, your husbando is cheating on you on the astral plane, isn't he?

(Anonymous) 2013-02-24 09:33 pm (UTC)(link)
Strawmen are so much easier to argue against, aren't they?

Seriously, most people who call out harassment aren't the ones being targeted by it.

(Anonymous) 2013-02-25 12:07 am (UTC)(link)
It's 'cause you're lousy in the virtual bedroom, ain't it?