[ SECRET POST #2251 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2251 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

I have never cared if my fantasy crushes are married, it's a fantasy, I can do whatever I want in my fantasies. People who have fandom crushes need to remember to have their dividing line between fandom and reality, and that basically means staying the hell away from a married individual.

Though that wife sounds a bit insecure and I feel bad for her if she can't handle her husband's fame.

[(Anonymous)]

I try not to, but somehow I can't help it - even though there are thousand different aspects of his personality that I don't know so of course my image is never going to be "realistic", and yet this seems to be some kind of dealbreaker.

Hearing you so much on knowing the difference between fandom and reality! That's one thing that continually weirds me out about Twitter, especially, it seems to be completely breaking down the fourth wall.

[(Anonymous)]

I don't think it's inherently horrible that it's a deal breaker for you, I just hope you're not too upset about it. Like when some fans get mad because their favorite actor got married, it's really nothing to be upset about and this all goes back to remembering that these things are fantasies.

I think some people always tried to break the 4th wall down, there have always been "groupies" and people have always written crazy letters to people they are a fan of, but those are the types of letters that get thrown out and in regards to twitter, I wouldn't blame a celeb for blocking certain people.

Like it's okay to be a fan and express to that person you are a fan, but it's not okay to make public sexual advances to that person.

I remember once Nathan Fillion wrote (years back, it was on his myspace) that he really didn't appreciate receiving messages of a sexual nature, and I was just taken back because I don't understand how people can think that is appropriate in the first place.

[(Anonymous)]

It might not be an insecurity issue at all. If he ignores her for long periods of time, or constantly prioritizes fandom-related stuff over her, then she has legitimate concerns.

[(Anonymous)]

"Feeling more and more invisible in his shadow" is where I would read insecurity. I can't possibly say either way what their personal life is like, but while I wouldn't say the insecurity is unjustified I also wouldn't say it's non existent either.

People often have trouble being with someone who is in a similar trade that they are, ego and self esteem issues can arise very easily if your SO seems more "successful" then you are. This is not a judgment, just an observation.