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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-03-10 03:39 pm

[ SECRET POST #2259 ]


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(Anonymous) 2013-03-10 10:19 pm (UTC)(link)
Psychologist here.

It can be a very difficult process to try to unlearn attitudes you've acquired about sex. For some people, the simple recognition that a belief that they have about sexuality is based on an incorrect assumption is enough to change that belief. For others, it isn't so black and white as all that. If you are having difficulty, the first thing I would suggest is talking to someone close to you; hopefully someone somewhat open-minded about sex.

If you (like a lot of people) don't have anyone you feel comfortable talking to about sex, that might make it harder to judge whether or not your beliefs have any amount of truth to them. It also makes it hard to self-analyze when you can't bounce your ideas off of someone else. Don't feel bad about this, though. Tons of people just don't feel comfortable talking about sex to people they know in general. You are not alone on this point.

If that's the case with you, OP, then therapy can provide you with a person who has heard weirder things come out of people's mouths as a daily matter of course. It can also provide you with an outlet to come to terms with your ideas and problems.

Whatever you choose to do, I wish you luck OP. That's a very tricky task you have ahead of you, and it can take years to accomplish even with the very best of intentions.