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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-03-10 03:39 pm

[ SECRET POST #2259 ]


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[personal profile] citrinesunset 2013-03-11 01:55 am (UTC)(link)
Maybe you can work on achieving some balance? I don't know how long your obsession has been going on, but I don't think getting distracted by something new and shiny is necessarily something to worry over too much. The main thing is making sure you reel yourself in somewhat so you can take care of other things you need/want to do. Like, maybe you can focus on making fandom and shipping stuff a reward for after you get work done.

As for your relationship, I would ask yourself how realistic your comparisons are. Real relationships aren't as idealized as fantasy ones. But this is bringing up some genuine complaints you should address?

I think everything you're describing is more likely to be a serious issue if it's an extended thing. Hopefully if you work on maintaining some balance, and let things run their course to some extent, you'll be able to enjoy your new interest without feeling like it's taking over your life.