Case (
case) wrote in
fandomsecrets2013-03-23 03:35 pm
[ SECRET POST #2272 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2272 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
01.

__________________________________________________
02.

__________________________________________________
03.

__________________________________________________
04.

__________________________________________________
05.

__________________________________________________
06.

__________________________________________________
07.

__________________________________________________
08.

__________________________________________________
09.

__________________________________________________
10.

__________________________________________________
11.

__________________________________________________
12.

__________________________________________________
13.

__________________________________________________
14.

__________________________________________________
15.

__________________________________________________
16.

__________________________________________________
17.

__________________________________________________
18.

__________________________________________________
Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 06 pages, 140 secrets from Secret Submission Post #325.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 - posted twice ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

no subject
(Anonymous) 2013-03-24 12:05 am (UTC)(link)Speaking as a fat person who used to cosplay way back before it was called cosplay, I still don't get why it's automatically considered mean to tell someone that a particular costume just doesn't work well with their body type.
To me it's no different than saying something like, "No, Andre the Giant, I'm very sorry, but I just don't think you'd have much luck as a horse jockey." Because he wouldn't have, even if a horse could be found that could carry the man, and he'd have looked ludicrous trying. It would be meaner to get someone's hopes up in a situation like that than to just tell the truth and offer to help them find something that worked better for them.
There's a difference between acknowledging an obvious physical reality, even if it's an unpalatable one, and mocking or belittling someone because of it.
no subject
(Anonymous) 2013-03-24 01:28 am (UTC)(link)no subject
It's sort of one of those fashion-ish things. You can look good at any size if you know how to clothe and hold yourself.