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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-03-26 07:01 pm

[ SECRET POST #2275 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2275 ⌋

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Re: Spouses exchanging passwords?

(Anonymous) 2013-03-26 11:58 pm (UTC)(link)
That's a BS reason. You either have trust between you or you don't. Making a display of it for the sake of making the display is just stupid. And the person who demands that of their spouse has put the other person on the spot. They can either say yes even if they don't trust their spouse with it (I wouldn't trust anyone who demanded my password), or they can say no and cause a shitstorm of drama that way.

My husband and I have each other's passwords for many things because we've needed to share them for various reasons over the years. He even has my LJ password but I'd be horrified if he went back and read the last 12 years of entries. But because neither of us demanded passwords of the other and never knew them until we'd been married several years, we don't feel like granting the other access if needed is a problem. He isn't using my LJ to read my entries or those of my friends; he has it so he can notify my friends if something happens to me (which he's had to do twice).
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Re: Spouses exchanging passwords?

[personal profile] teaphile 2013-03-27 08:08 pm (UTC)(link)
(I wouldn't trust anyone who demanded my password)

This, exactly. My husband knows all my passwords (he creates them for me) and I trust him to never use them unless something bad happened to me and he had to. But if he had demanded I give them to him? I'd wonder if he was planning to invade my privacy, which would mean an immediate no.

And to answer a possible question, I don't have his passwords because I don't need them (he doesn't have nearly the online life I have) or they're work-related.