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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-04-18 07:11 pm

[ SECRET POST #2298 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2298 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2013-04-19 01:10 am (UTC)(link)
+10000000

Why should someone leave the fandom they like because other people do?
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[personal profile] truxillogical 2013-04-19 07:54 am (UTC)(link)
I don't think anyone ever said OP should leave their fandom. Fandom isn't a physical place. You don't have to leave one to enter another.

I wouldn't call OP a "bad friend." But if OP is upset because their friends are all excited about a new something and OP isn't even willing to try that something and then feels left out...well, that doesn't make them a bad friend, but not even being willing to spend a couple of hours trying something is kind of their fault. It's an easy enough fix, or it would've been. (I imagine at this point, OP's worked up a nice, healthy blame of Avengers, so trying it would just be bitter and constantly filled with hypercritical thoughts of "They left me for this." And that's no way to watch a movie. Even Casablanca would suck under those conditions.)

(Anonymous) 2013-04-19 09:01 pm (UTC)(link)
why should they leave at all? why is this a zero sum game?

they can't be in the fandom they're in now AND be in a new fandom?

is that not how fandom works these days?