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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-04-27 03:53 pm

[ SECRET POST #2307 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2307 ⌋

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insanenoodlyguy: (Default)

Re: Sexuality Question Time!

[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2013-04-28 12:26 am (UTC)(link)
It was my assumption that this was a primary difference between bi and pansexualities.
inkdust: (Default)

Re: Sexuality Question Time!

[personal profile] inkdust 2013-04-28 12:40 am (UTC)(link)
People I know who identify as pan tend to underline that as the difference, but from my understanding (mainly online) there are a number who identify as bisexual who take issue with it.
making_excuses: (Default)

Re: Sexuality Question Time!

[personal profile] making_excuses 2013-04-28 01:01 am (UTC)(link)
I identify as Bisexual and I would have no trouble dating anyone trans*...

I am perfectly okay with looking at people as the gender they identify as and I don't especially care what you got going on downstairs.
Edited (Somehow a 7 had snuck itself into my comment... ) 2013-04-28 01:09 (UTC)
insanenoodlyguy: (Awesomeface)

Re: Sexuality Question Time!

[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2013-04-28 03:48 am (UTC)(link)
So you were really a pan all along

TAKE THE LABEL! THIS IS SUPER IMPORTANT TO SOCIETY
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Re: Sexuality Question Time!

[personal profile] making_excuses 2013-04-28 12:33 pm (UTC)(link)
FUCK YOU DICK!

I am bisexual, I will never ever, ever call myself Pansexual!

Re: Sexuality Question Time!

(Anonymous) 2013-04-28 02:32 pm (UTC)(link)
> FUCK YOUR DICK

FTFY :D

Re: Sexuality Question Time!

(Anonymous) 2013-04-28 12:59 am (UTC)(link)
this!

Re: Sexuality Question Time!

(Anonymous) 2013-04-28 03:51 am (UTC)(link)
The thing is, that's not how bisexuals themselves define it; that distinction was invented by other people and imposed upon them.

Re: Sexuality Question Time!

(Anonymous) 2013-04-28 06:56 am (UTC)(link)
Yep. This is what bothers me about it. I've never identified as pan because so often it gets expressed as "gender doesn't matter to me," and in a world that is so sexist (as well as homophobic and transphobic) saying gender "doesn't matter" seems really short-sighted to me. But when I see people who are not bisexual trying to redefine my identity for me, I kind of have to just throw up my hands and call myself "queer".

Re: Sexuality Question Time!

[personal profile] anonymouslyyours 2013-04-28 04:48 am (UTC)(link)
Ugggggggh. I'm done. Identifying~ is bullshit. I'll be declaring my sexual orientation on a yes I will sleep with you/no I will not sleep with you basis now, kthnxbai.
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Re: Sexuality Question Time!

[personal profile] thursdaymoose 2013-04-28 04:50 am (UTC)(link)
I thought so at first as well, but apparently a chunk of the bi community sees bisexuality as "attracted to people of their own gender, as well as people of other genders".

Idk, I don't take gender into regard when considering if I'd date someone, but I tend to switch between referring to myself as bi and pan depending on the community.