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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-04-28 03:16 pm

[ SECRET POST #2308 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2308 ⌋

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Re: Trans / Gender

(Anonymous) 2013-04-28 09:59 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, imo, the problem isn't so much with things being coded as masculine and feminine, so much as the way a lot of people end up degrading someone's individual identity for breaking the mold.

It's important to adhere to certain norms when you need to pass and fit in, and I don't think there's anything wrong with occupying "stereotypical" gender norms if it's something you feel is necessary, and more so if you enjoy those things.

You're just living your life, and you shouldn't have to put yourself on the line just because the rest of society is kind of shitty. Respect and acceptance doesn't really require you to change yourself when you're not hurting anyone to begin with.