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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-05-06 06:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #2316 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2316 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Band of Brothers]


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[Princess Princess]


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[Once Upon a Time]


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[Doctor Who]


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[toby turner/tobuscus/tobygames]


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[Common Law]


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[James May's Man Lab]


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[The Enigma of Amigara Fault]


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[Mad Men]


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[Lost Girl]


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[Twilight]


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[Monsters Inc]


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[Archer]


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[Super Junior / Infinite]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 062 secrets from Secret Submission Post #331.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 2 - broken links ], [ 1 (???) - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 2 - empty comments ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2013-05-06 11:19 pm (UTC)(link)
Not knowing what your vague medical conditions are, I can't comment as to whether your boyfriend is avoiding you because he's turned off or because he doesn't want to risk worsening your condition... and I know it's hard to give a damn about other people when this shitty thing is happening to you, but try talking to him about it before you take everyone else's advice and dump him without warning. He might be about as freaked out as you are by these sudden changes, and just not know how to express it.
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[personal profile] kallanda_lee 2013-05-06 11:28 pm (UTC)(link)
Thank you for being the sane person in the thread who didn't jump to "dump him" instantly without knowing their exact situation.
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[personal profile] chardmonster 2013-05-06 11:31 pm (UTC)(link)
Reluctantly: this.

I want to (and did) say dump him because your wording makes him appear to be a jerk but please make sure he is actually being a jerk.
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[personal profile] elialshadowpine 2013-05-07 07:49 am (UTC)(link)
... pretty much this, right down to the reluctance.

I say this having health issues, with meds that have caused weight gain (the family history doesn't help, either -_-), and needing to reassure most new partners that no, they are not going to break me.

I would not be surprised, though, if dude just happened to be a jerk.

(Anonymous) 2013-05-07 12:14 am (UTC)(link)
Certain types of medicines can make you gain weight. Sounds to me he's just being an ass more than caring about her "condition"

(Anonymous) 2013-05-07 12:19 am (UTC)(link)
Well thank god you're here to set us straight, since you apparently know everything about OP's situation.

(Anonymous) 2013-05-07 06:38 am (UTC)(link)
I'm pretty sure she just didn't up and balloon overnight. This had to be a gradual, albeit quick sort of thing, so it's not like he didn't see it coming

(Anonymous) 2013-05-07 12:50 am (UTC)(link)
A+

Seriously. There's really not enough information to make a judgement call like that. Jumping to conclusions on account of context-less and relatively ambiguous words on the internet to do it is what, kids? Bad form. That's right.

Of course if you talk to him and he is just being an asshole, dump his ass. Posthaste.

(Anonymous) 2013-05-07 02:04 am (UTC)(link)
That would make no sense giving the wording which seems to be something like:
I gained weight->my boyfriend won't touch me->I feel unattractive.