[ SECRET POST #2316 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2316 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Band of Brothers]


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[Princess Princess]


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[Once Upon a Time]


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[Doctor Who]


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[toby turner/tobuscus/tobygames]


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[Common Law]


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[James May's Man Lab]


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[The Enigma of Amigara Fault]


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[Mad Men]


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[Lost Girl]


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[Twilight]


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[Monsters Inc]


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[Archer]


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[Super Junior / Infinite]


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Comments

[fscom]

14. http://i.imgur.com/BTWt1jj.jpg
[Archer]

[(Anonymous)]

So, uh, not to state the obvious, but dump him.

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah. It's not your fault you gained weight, he shouldn't be making you feel worse than you already do, and there are guys who are attracted to heavier women.

[visp]

It could even be argued that it's not his fault that he's not attracted to fat women, but so what? If your SO doesn't want to bang you, for whatever reason, relationship's over. If you can break up nicely and remain buds, hooray, but at the end of the day, OP, you gotta find you someone who wants to tap dat ass.

Won't touch you? Dump him.

[chardmonster]

There is a big difference between "honey, let's work on getting that weight off again!" and "won't touch you."

Dump him

Dump him like a pallet of toasters out a C-130 over a hot LZ

[(Anonymous)]

Pam is incredibly sexy *__*

[(Anonymous)]

I won't tell you to dump him because I know it's not that simple, but wow what an ass.

Pam is amazing and I'm glad you found a character to anchor you, OP.

[(Anonymous)]

Pam is a stone cold fox.

I submit for your approval: Exhibit A.

(http://imgur.com/kFThoCV)

[(Anonymous)]

fuck that guy, seriously. What an asshole.

[(Anonymous)]

Not knowing what your vague medical conditions are, I can't comment as to whether your boyfriend is avoiding you because he's turned off or because he doesn't want to risk worsening your condition... and I know it's hard to give a damn about other people when this shitty thing is happening to you, but try talking to him about it before you take everyone else's advice and dump him without warning. He might be about as freaked out as you are by these sudden changes, and just not know how to express it.

[kallanda_lee]

Thank you for being the sane person in the thread who didn't jump to "dump him" instantly without knowing their exact situation.

[visp]

Well, better work on your bare knuckle boxing and drift racing.

[(Anonymous)]

Unless Boyfriend has reasons beyond "You put on weight and therefore ew" for not touching you, ditch the fucker. You deserve better than that.

[(Anonymous)]

He won't touch you, becuase you're overweight?

That's disgusting. You deserve MUCH, MUCH better than that. You're not a virus, you're a human being, and you deserve the basic decency and respect that should be afforded to ALL human beings.

You are not your body; you are YOU - and if he can't see that, he doesn't love you and he doesn't deserve you.

There are plenty of guys and girls out there who will love you for who you are - THEY are the people worth spending time with. Hell, being single sounds like it would be a lot more fun than hanging around that loser. He's just dragging you down.

Dump this guy. Dump his ass on the street.

[greenvelvetcake]

Two things - one, Pam is one of my favorite TV characters. Two, girl, if you relate to Pam, you've got to think like her. Would she stick with someone who wouldn't touch her?

Although considering the context, thinking like Pam in all situations might not be the best course of action.

[(Anonymous)]

yeah i'd hold off on "omg dump him"... there could be factors that have nothing to do with your weight. your medical issues, or even HE might have medical issues (how old is he? low testosterone is NOT uncommon)... if you have medical issues that cause pain he might be afraid to hurt you. don't just outright dump him, talk to him about it. good luck, OP. i'm sure you look beautiful.

[mechanosapience]

I'm sorry you're having this problem. Just know that no matter what, you are attractive to someone and worthy of love and desire. Your wording makes it sound like your boyfriend is being an ass, but if your boyfriend doesn't find you attractive, then ass or not, the relationship should probably end. That being said, I would recommend talking about this with him, since it is possible that he's also freaking out. Best of luck.

[(Anonymous)]

He sounds like a fucking dick. Ditch the asshole.

[pelespen]

I don't have time to read comments, so I'm just going to add mine to what I hope is 27 of the exact same thing - DUMP YOUR LOSER BOYFRIEND. He has issues that you do NOT need to have adding to your self esteem troubles.

[starry_starrrz]

In the words of Mama June: “Never settle for a man who doesn’t treat you right…If a guy doesn’t love everything about you, move on! There are plenty of other fish in the sea.”

Dump his sorry arse and replace him with someone who actually deserves you.

[(Anonymous)]

gotta love how everyone here immediately screams that he's disgusting and an ass, but you know if the genders were reversed and it were a fat guy and a skinny girl, no one would give a shit about his feelings. oh the irony.

some people just aren't sexually attracted to certain body types or features and there's nothing wrong with that. it doesn't make him an ass or a monster if the sexual attraction isn't there on his end anymore because some people need that sexual attraction in a relationship. but it also means that if this is the case, the two of you are no longer compatible, so it may be time to part ways and find someone who will be into you.

TL:DR

[(Anonymous)]

I love my girlfriend.
She's beautiful and sexy.
She's an amazing person, cute, funny, kind.
In every possible way she is perfect girl.

Among the many different ways I drop the ball boyfriend-wise is that I've been hit with a total lack of sex drive of late.

I love her, and try so hard to assure her that it's totally not her and that it's somthing wrong in me, but I know that sometimes she feels I dont find her attractive anymore. I know she's always worried that she's getting old and/or unattractive and my lack of sexual interest upsets her, but I dont know what I can do. When I try to 'fake it' she can tell that I'm just not into it.

Long story short: This dude of yours might be a douchebag. He might find you unattrative and simply not what to be with you anymore. On the otherhand he might have his own problems.

Either way I'm not suggesting that you have an obligation to stay with him. I'm reasonably certain that no matter what, he doesn't deserve to have you endure whatever he's going through, As people in this thread have suggested, Sex is a part of a real romantic relationship, but for the love of GOD, talk to him first.

If I'm wrong, and he simply no longer find you attractive, then the relationship may need to come to a close. If so, you have my deepest sympathies. BUT you do have to talk about it to reach that decision.

Now if you'll excuse me, I'm going to find a sturdy rafter and a lenght of rope.

[silverau]

I admit I don't know the whole context, but yeaaaah, your boyfriend sounds like a douche.

[stackcats]

Your boyfriend is a fuckwit.

[(Anonymous)]

your boyfriend sounds like a cunt. you deserve better, op.