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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-05-07 06:43 pm

[ SECRET POST #2317 ]


⌈ Secret Post #2317 ⌋

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Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 048 secrets from Secret Submission Post #331.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: Non-Fandom Secrets

(Anonymous) 2013-05-08 01:33 am (UTC)(link)
Man, I've been wanting to get this out for a while.

So, in another comm I'm in, someone posted a big thing about a woman that was being harassed and had been for some amount of time I can't remember. They tried to get the managing company of the thing that the comm was about to step in and get involved to stop the harassers, and I don't know what came of that, but her harassers managed to find her real life info and was calling her, making threats, whatnot. She felt the only way to get out of it was killing herself, so she did.

Yes, I find that tragic. I don't know what it's like to live in fear like that every day. But while everyone piled in to make teary, lamenting replies, I just wanted to chew a hole in my screen and punch somebody.

BECAUSE SHE KILLED HERSELF AND LEFT HER CHILD AN ORPHAN.

No father left alive, don't know why. She kills herself, child has no more parents. I don't know about grandparents or if the kid is now in the hands of the state. Seriously, I have no sympathy for you, lady. FUCK YOU. Your child deserved better than to be left alone in this world. So, thanks for leaving your kid with your mess, you selfish asshole.

If there'd been no kid in the picture, I would still feel like it was a waste because she still had options. But since there IS a kid? Fuck you.

/waits for the dogpiling about how I'm totes insensitive and mean and how could I say that about someone who committed suicide it's so sad~~ which is exactly why I kept my mouth shut in that thread.
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Re: Non-Fandom Secrets

[personal profile] republicanism 2013-05-08 01:48 am (UTC)(link)
now that we know your thoughts about suicidal parents, how many immediate family members are you allowed to have for your suicide to still be tragic and sad? is it just the kids or does killing yourself when you have brothers and sisters still qualify a dead person for a slot on your shit list?

Re: Non-Fandom Secrets

(Anonymous) 2013-05-08 01:58 am (UTC)(link)
I assume OP is upset because the kid is apparently left with no familial support, so it's straight-up abandonment, not just that their mom died.
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Re: Non-Fandom Secrets

[personal profile] republicanism 2013-05-08 02:06 am (UTC)(link)
i get that, but i don't see the point in going after someone who was probably very sick at heart and is now dead because of it.

of course it's sad that their kid was left alone; that compounds the tragedy, it doesn't negate it.

Re: Non-Fandom Secrets

(Anonymous) 2013-05-08 01:51 am (UTC)(link)
All I can say is that by the time you've made up your mind to kill yourself, you're not thinking rationally.

Re: Non-Fandom Secrets

(Anonymous) 2013-05-08 03:37 am (UTC)(link)
I don't think it's insensitive. I view suicide as a personal decision that every adult has a right to make, but I think it's a right that should be exercised as responsibly as any other right. If you have dependents in your care, doing everything you can not to fuck them over (short of not killing yourself at all) is a fair thing to ask. Yes, I know suicidal people aren't playing with a full set, I've been there. Murderers often aren't mentally sound at the time, either, but they still earn judgment for causing unnecessary harm to others.

But, you know, at this point, I'm just glad she had the heart not to take the kid with her into death. It's a really low bar to set, but people can be so fucking awful sometimes.
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Re: Non-Fandom Secrets

[personal profile] hateart 2013-05-08 10:23 pm (UTC)(link)
Well, she's dead now, so if you want to be a fucking asshole about it you can comfort yourself with the knowledge that she suffered the harshest, most permanent consequences for her actions.