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fandomsecrets2013-05-11 03:33 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2013-05-11 03:33 pm
[ SECRET POST #2321 ]
⌈ Secret Post #2321 ⌋
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(Anonymous) 2013-05-11 11:56 pm (UTC)(link)We are technically offline friends at this point, having met f2f a ton of times. But maybe there's still a part of her that doesn't feel as close to me as I do to her? Damn. We're planning a trip together, I really want it to work out.
/making it all about me
My sympathies to you, anon. Sometimes personal connections are anxious-making.
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(Anonymous) 2013-05-12 12:17 am (UTC)(link)For me, when I do this, it's not that I don't feel close to the person. I mostly just get really overwhelmed with anxiety, through a combination of feeling guilty that I haven't been interacting with them enough and worrying that maybe they don't actually want me to bother them anyway. I've lost some of my best friends this way...
Just saying, if this is what is happening to you, it's not necessarily that they don't feel as close to you as you do to them. There could be other things at play.