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⌈ Secret Post #2321 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

Yeah, I get anxiety. I panic whenever I walk up to a closed door and cannot immediately see which way it opens. What if I think it's push when it's pull? What if I walk right into the door? What if I take too long to open a fucking door? That would be so embarrassing. People will laugh at me.

The thing is, anxiety is awfully narcissistic. Nobody watches you this closely. Nobody cares how I open a door, and nobody gives a fuck if your screen name endorses a fic that might turn out to be not so good after all. And you know this.

It's harsh but in the end, that's what social anxiety boils down to: you aren't that important. People don't care about your inconsequential errors of judgement. Frequent avoidance makes it worse; I suggest you go and leave kudos on a genuinely shitty fic right now so you learn to get over yourself.

[(Anonymous)]

Unnecessarily harsh

[(Anonymous)]

Sometimes that's what's needed. I know that from personal experience.

[(Anonymous)]

Thanks for validating the comment with your opinion and proving that everyone has narcissism, not just the people with anxiety.

[(Anonymous)]

Except um I'm pretty sure the anon was someone who had a similar anxiety disorder and understands it's egoistic nature (and admits to the narcissistic slant) and thus how they got over it ...so like what is your point?

[(Anonymous)]

and yet the world still does not revolve around you.

[(Anonymous)]

da. I don't think it's harsh. Speaking for myself, a lot of the anxiety I did have, I learned to get over it when I learned that people really weren't paying THAT much attention to me, and that my tiny faux pas really was NOT a big deal.

Learning not to magnify the significance of all those things? Helped me realize that it wasn't the big deal I was making of it.

Maybe it doesn't work for you, but that doesn't necessarily mean it won't work for everyone.

[(Anonymous)]

Wow, again with the anons who obviously have no idea about anxiety.

[(Anonymous)]

We, again with the anons who use neurodivergence as an excuse to be arseholes.