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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-05-13 06:50 pm

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Re: It varries, but yeah, for some. Only with more people.

(Anonymous) 2013-05-14 02:23 am (UTC)(link)
I'm sorry if this sounds dumb, but honest question here: do people feel like this to just random people they see? Like you see an attractive person while walking the street and you get this urge to whatever all up on them?

I've never felt attraction and I just assumed that it was more of a process. Like you meet someone, they interest you for whatever reason, you get to know them and attraction and arousal happens. But now I'm thinking that's not how it works. Or at least now how it always works.

Re: It varries, but yeah, for some. Only with more people.

(Anonymous) 2013-05-14 03:35 am (UTC)(link)
I can't speak for anyone else, but attraction and arousal are two different things for me. I can really love to look at someone and want to be in contact with them in some way (usually how it works with hot celebrities), but less chaste urges don't kick in until an explicitly sexual situation happens, usually once I've gotten more intimate with them, or once the cameras I've set up around their home catches them in a middle of a fap session.

(EDI voice) ...that was a joke.

Re: It varries, but yeah, for some. Only with more people.

(Anonymous) 2013-05-14 07:27 am (UTC)(link)
For me, it really depends. Most of the time I'll just think "wow that person is pretty hot" but every so often there's someone that makes my brain go straight to "I want to tear their clothes off and have dirty, dirty sex with them right this minute."
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Re: It varries, but yeah, for some. Only with more people.

[personal profile] insanenoodlyguy 2013-05-14 07:59 pm (UTC)(link)
There are levels. Like the anon above me says, I'll see a hot girl and go "goddamn I'd love to get with that!" But I won't be up thinking about them that night. There's a reaction certainly. It depends. I'd say at least for most guys I know, those reactions are more arousal then "I'd sure like to take that person out for dinner" though that aspect depends a lot on your present relationship status as well.

I think you hit on the key though. Not how it ALWAYS works. It's gonna vary. Not just person to person. Same person, day to day.

If, for example, I've been out of contact with my GF for a while and haven't gotten any and haven't done anything with myself either, my reactions are bit more intense then if I've satiated some of my physical lusts, with her or by myself. I'd be more likely to have an actual physical reaction (namely a boner or semi-boner) in certain situations. Even then though, unless there was some additional aspect to the situation, like say, if somebody who triggered this reaction did so by actively flirting with me, it'd be out of mind quickly. And still probably magnitudes lower then what you are feeling right now.

You got a bit of a hard crush going right now from the sounds of it, those can change the rules during their initial intensity. Probably moreso for you if this is your first time.

Re: It varries, but yeah, for some. Only with more people.

(Anonymous) 2013-05-16 03:28 am (UTC)(link)
No, but I think some people are extraordinarily handsome or charming and I want them to acknowledge/flirt with me.

They have to be pretty hot to bring on that OMG I WANT TO BONE THEM feeling. Most people in the street aren't that amazing-looking, to be honest. I see maybe one hot guy a month.

Maybe I need to move.