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fandomsecrets2013-05-13 06:50 pm
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Re: Clingy Friend (and Mod)
(Anonymous) 2013-05-14 03:44 am (UTC)(link)Probably the first thing you are going to have to do is actually sit her down like a couple of adults and tell her that her behaviour cannot continue. Tell her that while you like her as a friend, you also need to be able to spend time with other friends. Tell her that while you like playing in her game, you also sometimes want to play other things. As long as you are meeting whatever activity requirements your roleplay has (if any at all) that is fine. Write everything down letter format first if you want. It is really important you do this first cause it kinda sounds neither of you is exactly displaying stellar communicative behaviour.
From there on, once you have made your wishes and boundaries clear in a good conversation, if you do not want to chat with her, tell her. you do not have to tell her a reason why you do not want to chat with her. you do not owe her your constant time and attention even if she is your friend. if she throws a fuss, tell her you are temporarily blocking her because she is incapable of respecting your boundaries and do so. Give the situation a time out before unblocking her again.
Because seriously, if you have had a proper conversation about her behaviour and your wishes and she still continues to act like that, she is not an awesome person. Disrespecting other people's wishes is not awesome.