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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-05-18 03:39 pm

[ SECRET POST #2328 ]


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(Anonymous) 2013-05-18 09:29 pm (UTC)(link)
OP, I can't imagine how crippling your social anxiety must be, but I think the cardboard isn't a good idea.
Pretend-play often prooves to have positive effects when dealing with phobias, but only when used in a serious therapy and when deemed appropriate by the therapist.

I fear if you keep this up you might spiral even deeper into your anxiety (and possible objectification of women) because even though the standee looks like a girl, she will never be a girl. She will never talk back, show emotions and reactions. She will always just say what you want her to say and therefore not reflect what it's like to have a real relationship with a real human. She's just a fantasy existing in your head.

I don't know, but you might end up like those guys who order one of those dolls so they can have someone beautiful to cuddle and fuck but won't have to deal with them talking back, saying no or just having a bad day.

Seek help from a professional. If you can't afford it, call a hotline at least.