[ SECRET POST #2328 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2328 ⌋

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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

ok, ignoring the fact you sound very creepy in deciding she's your ~girl~friend just because you can say good morning/good evening to her (not just a friend, a girlfriend? ohboy)

Get some help. Get a community centre therapist and tell them, right up, that you're lonely and need help/practice at talking people and making friends. NOT meeting girlfriends, NOT getting dates, MAKING FRIENDS.

Caps to get it across, but you want FRIENDS first. Girlfriend may or may not happen, but if you go into it with the aim to meet each girl in the hopes they may be your girlfriend - you're being a fuckhead if you do that and are not worthy of dating any of them. Got it? You can be lonely, you can want a life partner or whatever, but if that's the only reason you're making friends with people you're not cool. Also they're probably gonna get the vibe you're after a girlfriend.

To fix loneliness? You make friends. Dating is not a compulsory part of this and it's actually pretty cool to have multiple friends so you're not putting all your social energy into one person and tiring them out (from the POV of a person who had a friend and I was the only friend? I loved them but being the focus of ALL their friendship drove me nuts. Especially when jealousy of my other friends started happening. Even if you do get a GF she's gonna have other friends too, people are social beings and don't normally revolve around one person).

If you don't want a therapist, join a community social group - it can be one specifically fighting loneliness and anxiety (I've been to some of these, they're not so bad and you can make friends!!! to do things with!!!! or just talk to!!!) or join a group in something your interested in; games, photos, forensics studies whatever.

Don't worry about getting a girlfriend, just focus on meeting people and easing up on your lonely bit by bit. You just need practice at talking to people and working it out. It takes time.