[ SECRET POST #2328 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #2328 ⌋

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Comments

Re: Ugly. Or something.

[(Anonymous)]

Yes, it is dickish. Expressing your pity because someone is so unattractive that their life must therefore be harder because of how they look? There is no way that this opinion is unflattering or not hurtful, even if the person in question is not within hearing range. It's not even neutral, it's just... awful.

And now I feel sad that you thought this was okay.

Re: Ugly. Or something.

[dreemyweird]

But I don't mean to make an assumption or mock somebody, I usually state the fact? It is so often the case!

I... suspected as much, though. I have problems with understanding moral taboos, all these differences between black and white :( Usually I try to tell people straight away that I'm a bad person so that they wouldn't get hurt and waste their time trying to be friends with me, but then apparently I end up doing awful things anyway. And sometimes I can't bring myself to care, just because the taboos are so illogical and make no sense. Yeah, I know it's not how it works.

I'm sorry I disappointed you.

Re: Ugly. Or something.

[(Anonymous)]

Taboos make no sense? Does keeping insulting comments to yourself really not make any sense to you?

It's none of your business to announce to someone what their appearance is. If someone mentioned that you were really ugly, and then told you "I'm just stating a fact girlfriend, I'm not trying to be mean!" Would you honestly not be hurt? Especially in this society that states your worth is based solely on your appearance?

Re: Ugly. Or something.

[dreemyweird]

No, I wasn't talking about telling someone that they're ugly. This is another thing entirely, and of course NOT doing this makes a lot of sense.

What I had in mind was the OP's situation, where the conversation was not intended for the OP to overhear (granted, they probably didn't try very hard, and this is problematic - but the fact itself? Not sure why).