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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-05-25 04:12 pm

[ FS Anon Meme ]

F!S Anon Meme (the ??th)


Secrets, rants, opinions, anything you want to say about your fandom or a fandom or fandom in general, do it here! Anonymously, of course. Get it all off your chest.

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1. Going anon is encouraged but not absolutely required (for those who struggle with recaptchas and stuff).
2. No autoplaying/autolooping embeds, or embeds that cover/stretch the screen.
3. No dropping personal info or IRL contact info, etc.

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(Today's post is below.)

(Anonymous) 2013-05-26 03:41 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't understand. I'm not saying it's not a problem for Girls. I was just...

Nevermind.

(Anonymous) 2013-05-26 03:48 pm (UTC)(link)
i'm sorry for my kneejerk response

it's just i've seen so many guys bust into discussions about the problem with using "fangirl" derisively going "hey what about people using 'fanboy' as an insult, that's a sexist thing that's totally 100% equivalent to what you're talking about!!" and such that i get a little leery about it

(Anonymous) 2013-05-26 03:59 pm (UTC)(link)
No worries. I get it.
Sorry for getting so upset. I relly do need to learn to take things less personally. mea culpa.

(Anonymous) 2013-05-26 04:05 pm (UTC)(link)
hey, it's ok, really

it can be really hard not to take things personally

it's something i have a lot of difficulty with myself tbh