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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2013-06-02 03:28 pm

[ SECRET POST #2343 ]


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bored_bitch: (Garrus_dungiveafuck)

[personal profile] bored_bitch 2013-06-02 08:30 pm (UTC)(link)
The only time I can excuse cheating is when it's between an abusive couple where the one cheating has been threatened by the other that they will hurt or kill that person for leaving them.

Or if it's an arranged marriage, and the cheating party can't confront the other because they're trapped away from them for some period of time.

Otherwise, no. Grow up, and end it if you're unhappy.
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[personal profile] inkdust 2013-06-02 08:49 pm (UTC)(link)
Agreed.
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[personal profile] world_eater 2013-06-02 08:58 pm (UTC)(link)
Omg thisssss.


It makes me unreasonably mad when characters cheat on someone because omg breaking up is harrrrrd. I mean "I start to hate the character so much I can't watch the show anymore" mad.

I don't know what my problem is either, have never been cheated on.

(Anonymous) 2013-06-02 09:02 pm (UTC)(link)
What about situations where they legally can't end it?
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[personal profile] bored_bitch 2013-06-02 10:52 pm (UTC)(link)
I haven't seen that (at least I think I haven't), but that would be another exception.

I'm talking about situations where it's in the cheating party's control to say "I'm leaving you." but they choose not to / just let things happen / have a drunken regret / etc.
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[personal profile] lyndis 2013-06-02 09:12 pm (UTC)(link)
Pretty much this. I have no trouble with cheating in an arranged (particularly medieval setting) marriage but with two people who have agreed to be together... I just don't condone it and it creeps me out.

I think it can be interesting, or have interesting dynamics for character development/etc, but depending on the situation it can also make me incredibly angry and/or uncomfortable. I mean...I would never cheat unless it was an arranged marriage, and even then, it's hard to imagine because I don't live in that kind of culture nor will I ever. P: If I really respected someone, even if I didn't love them, I couldn't cheat on them.

(Anonymous) 2013-06-03 12:48 am (UTC)(link)
The only time I can excuse cheating is when it's between an abusive couple where the one cheating has been threatened by the other that they will hurt or kill that person for leaving them.

And I think those might be the worst circumstances ever to cheat, because getting caught (always a risk) means they might actually harm you. Even if that wasn't a risk, jumping from an abusive relationship to another relationship is very unhealthy, and part of the reason abusive relationships tend to come in groups for a lot of people.