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Re: What's your temper like?
But I do realize I can get very angry at people. Normally, I try to always question my anger to see if it's legitimate. If my anger looks stupid to me then surely it looks ridiculous to outsiders. That helps me calm down and not get so angry in the first place. However, when I do get unquestionably angry I don't like that part of me so I try something else. I always feel, for me, it's not about my anger but how I react. I refuse to give into my anger for the most part. I will be patient. I have to be. It's really important to me to treat people well, even if I'm seething mad, because I don't see that as an excuse. Being angry isn't an excuse to treat people poorly or to not be patient.
I have blown up but it's rare and normally when I do it's because of something I've been trying to work on or fix over a long period of time. For example, the last thing I blew up about was to my mother and how she treated a certain aspect of my life, and made me feel invalidated. This was something I had been working on since about the seventh grade. So, many, many years is how long that took to boil over. And for anyone who cares, we did fix it. I apologized for my very unseemly outburst too because I was ashamed by how I acted. My mother and I then talked a long time about everything. So at least that won't happen again.
So, to answer your question, I am an angry person who refuses to not be patient so it takes a lot for me to show it.